Oh I get.. You go above and beyond and I mean that in a positive way Please don’t step back!!Apologies if you think I came across a bit harsh there. I guess all these months later, with all the stress this situation has put on us, I do find myself getting into "by fair means or foul" mindsets about her at times, which is very uncharacteristic of me. That's the impact someone with not a shred of decency has, and part of me does keep thinking that anything (within reason, obviously not the kids ) is fair game if it forces her hand as she has no morals.
Anyway I'll step back a bit