It's starting to look like she's in the middle of a breakdown.
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I think it’s just the grief process, grief is a horrendous process
Ah Farrah Rose (and maybe Saoirse) being an IVF baby makes the fact that they were both conceived on 17 April and it being their parents anniversary of meeting makes it a lot less weird/creepy than it seemed from her post at the weekend.
The most personal private information being broadcast publicly to strangers. Beyond weird.
I feel for her, for them, it’s unthinkable what they’re going through. I find it unnecessary for her to attach superlative identities to her like she was their town’s little saint? The nations child? To be fair, it probably speaks to the mam’s unrelenting grief.
Its getting out of hand now, everyday theres a new post up, so soon after burying her child. Can't understand it myself. Thankfully I have never been in her situation, but I know if I was I would'nt be able to function let alone post private things on a public forum. The whole thing is beyond strange
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Yeah the photo of 'dada'
with the framed picture? Like how does that conversation go...let me take your photo and put it up for the world to see? Jesus christ if that tragedy happened to myself and my husband I think he would sign me into Lomans or strangle me if I went kn like that. He is obviously as bad as her letting it go on. The whole thing is nuts---
If that was my child I would'nt be able to look at the coffin let alone be thinking oh I must film this for instagram.
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Totally agree with you, I was at one childs funeral. A 5 year old little girl that went to school with my daughter. She had cancer. My god it was horrific. The parents had her coffin in the morning car with them. They were so distraught the mother could'nt get out of the car. I will never forget it as long as I live. It changed me as a person seeing that. Nothing posted on social media even though they had a page going. Just all very dignified not like Saoirse mam.
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I know the one today....happy Friday Saoirse?
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The latest reel, it's like something your phone would make and you sit on the couch crying to, getting through your grief in your own private way. Except she's sharing it with the world. Whoever called it grief porn hit the nail on the head
And then sharing it to the story, covering it with the "New Post" thing... That's what influencers do to get people to look at their grid posts. Like there's something exciting you're missing if you don't click into it.
Same as. I think the sharing it is the issue though. So much private stuff has been shared which can never be taken back.
I always associate Robins with my grandad
It reminded me of the old Peter Kay gag about the empty Quaver bag blowing past at a funeral.
It's a sign!
He loved Quavers!!
I remember Gloria Hunniford used to talk about this after Caron died, feathers left as a sign from Caron.
I thought it was nonsense personally, but that if it made Gloria happy then ok.
Yeah I’ve absolutely no issue whatsoever with people imagining, believing, seeing, feeling things even if it’s their own mind creating these things for them, if it helps them.
I think there’s an odd obsession with sharing everything that feels uncomfortable. But it might be that she worries that if she stops, everyone will forget her daughter. Additionally so much of her own identity and purpose quickly became about being a sick girl’s mother. That sick girl is no longer here and no longer needs her, so perhaps it’s this unhealthy need to keep her present, and keep her own self in the past that is behind a lot of this.
I think there’s an odd obsession with sharing everything that feels uncomfortable. But it might be that she worries that if she stops, everyone will forget her daughter. Additionally so much of her own identity and purpose quickly became about being a sick girl’s mother. That sick girl is no longer here and no longer needs her, so perhaps it’s this unhealthy need to keep her present, and keep her own self in the past that is behind a lot of this.
The thing is people move on. Strangers didn’t know S or love her like mama thinks they did. Of course everyone wished the best for her but we aren’t actually grieving her. People are addicted to mourn porn as horrible as it sounds & that’s what her account is now. In time I believe like the others she will look back & regret the sharing of things that shouldn’t be shared
I agree, people are addicted to that type of thing.... after my child died the amount of people who added me on SM was huge.
People in my village who id known for years, but not friends, suddenly wanted to be my friend.... and even more weird, the amount of new requests my child got, after passing
So sorry to hear you lost your childI agree, people are addicted to that type of thing.... after my child died the amount of people who added me on SM was huge.
People in my village who id known for years, but not friends, suddenly wanted to be my friend.... and even more weird, the amount of new requests my child got, after passing
that is indeed very weird that people would request you!!! 
did they do that so they could message you directly was it?Thank you.....I think they just wanted to see anything i posted on fb for example, same with my childs account! Im not really much of a poster on there, and never updated my childs account afterwards, he was a teenager, and i didnt want to upset his friends, plus, i thought that would be weirdSo sorry to hear you lost your child
