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caremum

I think she is beyond having a word. she is in a spiral of grief and pain.

I unfollowed as I dont want a ringside view of this poor womans breakdown. I really hope those near her rally round her rather then just 'having a word'. I have had losses but never a child and it really would be any mums worst nightmare
 
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AH HERE

I can’t look I find it too upsetting and I don’t even know them. I don’t know what to make of it all. Luckily I don’t know her pain and if she wants to post things fair enough. But it’s gone too far with glimpses of her after she passed.
 
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Lucydowl

Sometimes it sounds like inexplicable grief and disbelief but with her theres an awful gut feeling theres a purpose of posting these private moments to keep content and engagement high for future commercial gain. Hopefully not, those children deserve privacy and protection.
 
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Chatty9

We don't celebrate our dogs birthday, like maybe a quick passing oh he's 5 this week and a treat of a bone or something. She had personalised banner and everything. It seems like she is thinking up any ways to post something. I cant imagine thinking to do that if I'd lost my child 8 weeks ago 😢
 
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Ifyoucantbeatemjoinem

At the end of the day, luckily and thankfully for a lot of us on here/social media we don't know her pain. And obviously never wish to. I can't in a million years imagine recording a hearse with the remains of a loved one in, let alone that of a child. I can't imagine posting pictures that give a glimpse of my dead child's body.

Who knows what that loss and devastation does to someone. To a mother.

I find it all highly disturbing, upsetting and completely inappropriate so I don't watch her stories. I do know though that my family would 100% have a very stern word with me if I did anything like that though should such devastating loss happen to me. It's so so wrong, in my opinion.
 
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Cazza79

Chatty9 said:
We don't celebrate our dogs birthday, like maybe a quick passing oh he's 5 this week and a treat of a bone or something. She had personalised banner and everything. It seems like she is thinking up any ways to post something. I cant imagine thinking to do that if I'd lost my child 8 weeks ago 😢
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Maybe she is doing it for farrah
 
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Talcadidas

I think she deleted it because I can’t see anything. I wonder whether she reads here or (hopefully) someone close to her persuaded her to reconsider. It’s sad that she even has those photos and vids though.
 
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mrsimoan

I unfollowed her, it was tearing me apart watching her posts. A friend watched/saw the post and was really upset by it - I actually wonder is anything sacred and private any more! It seems to have turned into some macabre log of what should be a very private and personal time. Someone needs to have a word in her ear and maybe encourage her to seek support.
 
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