Girl, I feel you! My black mom braided my hair and didn't want to let me braid my own hair. I'm now reaching 30 and learning all by myself and it has been an enriching and healing experience. My braids are not perfect, but the whole process of putting that time into self care has been very therapeutic and just a happy moment. I wish Sammi could show us what she does know. We all can learn from each other. Maybe she knows how to do something that we don't know. But you know...
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100%, I think it would be really refreshing to see her learning this stuff and showing us. Black women aren't born with an innate knowledge of how to care for our hair, we all have different experiences and her talking about this learning in her 30s I'm sure would resonate with so many people!
Just out of curiosity but is Sammi bisexual or into women? Reason I ask because of the below and I have noticed the same thing - on her socials
Yes girl, sister has come out of the closet so many times, leaving that closet door unhinged
More power to her
Oh, so it is 100% true? Has she mentioned it in a video or something?Yes girl, sister has come out of the closet so many times, leaving that closet door unhinged
She had a video a long time ago, saying that she was interested or into women and recently she made a tik tok video coming out.
Does she think she is trying to be edgy. The way she has been acting looks like she is forcing herself to be cool. She goes through phases depending on what is popular at the time. She steals other people's identities then pretends as if they were her's all along.
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She is such a try hard...so forced!
This is exactly how I feel at the moment. She’s trying to be relevant and fit all the current trends. Her house (from what I’ve seen) looks very much like she’s taken ideas from Pinterest. She just seem to be a bit lost with her own identity. Which is understandable as she’s suddenly become a single mother, but own that? Don’t just cling to trends.
Another day, another cringe TikTok. I feel like the "spiritual" Sammi is trying to show she has matured and grown as a person, but the "edgy" Sammi who goes "duck tha haterz" is like an insecure 18 year old trying desperately to be cool.
grow up Sam!!!
The embarrassment from that tiktok!! I can't deal.
And no shade to anyone who's genuinely into new age religion, but I feel like it's such an easy thing to take up these days because it's so trendy.
It's probably not the spiritual awakening she believes it is.
Follow a few influencers, discover some generic information on manifestation and that's all it takes it seems. A lot of people (influencers) who follow it think they're super deep and in touch with their souls but they're just regurgitating the basics.
For me it's like when yoga was super popular.
Everyone thought all it took was to do the downward dog and they were part of the culture but how many still do yoga as more than an exercise routine now the fad has passed???
And no shade to anyone who's genuinely into new age religion, but I feel like it's such an easy thing to take up these days because it's so trendy.
It's probably not the spiritual awakening she believes it is.
Follow a few influencers, discover some generic information on manifestation and that's all it takes it seems. A lot of people (influencers) who follow it think they're super deep and in touch with their souls but they're just regurgitating the basics.
For me it's like when yoga was super popular.
Everyone thought all it took was to do the downward dog and they were part of the culture but how many still do yoga as more than an exercise routine now the fad has passed???
But you can tell from her videos she’s not like this at all. Always self-checking and sounding unsure of herself, even down to pronunciation of words or brands. You’re too old for tik tok luv
I also think it's so unhelpful to say that social anxiety, imposter syndrome and panic attacks are "awkwardness that only exist in your mind". Those things are real and should be dealt with properly. Going "welp, I can't control what others think of me so duck them anyway" doesn't feel like a healthy way of dealing with deeply engrained mental health issues.
We need a new thread, any name suggestions?!
We need a new thread, any name suggestions?!
totally agree. seeking proper therapy/treatment for a mental health condition is distinct from finding general self confidence and contentment, I think she's confusing the two.
Sammi Maria #2 Finally single, supposedly bisexual, wannabe spiritual...but still painfully delusional
So like she posted this and I thought she reads here.
Never mind her skin, she should try being sober for the sake of her mental health...!
Its to the point where it could indicate a mental disorder of some sort. Shes struggled with her identity for some time now wouldnt be surprised if it turned into some kind of permanent disorder
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