Some commentator, a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, made an Instagram post yesterday calling out the fatphobia inherent in the response to the video, going so far as to compare the crown/corset/pasties/jockstrap outfit with a still from Harry Styles's Music For A Sushi Restaurant video, where Harry wears a coral crown, strings of pearls, is bare chested and has a mermaid tail.
There are indeed correlations between both images, but Harry isn't drawing attention to his crotch in the video. And in my opinion Harry is more conventionally good looking than Sam. And yes he is a physically fit young man.
Aside from the physical differences between them, the subjects of both videos are wildly different. Harry's video isn't overtly sexual and I don't believe he is trying to be sexy. Whereas, Sam is.
I think it's perfectly ok to not find a person attractive, we all like different things/find different things attractive.
I have said it before, I'm not Sam's target audience, so whether I find him sexy or consider him sexy is entirely moot.
I just don't like the song. Don't like the subject of the video and really don't think allusions to golden showers belong in a music video.