SacconeJoly’s #52 But we got wise, Anna’s the Devil in disguise

[Eyesopened]

She’s such a plonker, she’s answered the questions as she saw her dad which won’t be how he saw himself. Again she had no perception of anybody or anything .

 

[finou]

Is she going to give no context to this besides their energy types?

Is it the same lady that she gets her style advice from?
Looks like something for menopausal Karens.

 

[Mickey123]

I wonder if he puts his hand in the photo has some kinda code to his "friendliest friends?"

If SS hasn't done anything about any of the other situations those kids have been I'm pretty sure they aren't going to do anything about his alcoholism. I figure it's because the SS feel that it isn't directly affecting the kids (even though we all know it does) but their SS just looks the other way. Until someone is hurt physically they just don't care about the mental health of those kids. Dad can be slap out drunk as tit and ask the kids all kinds of inappropriate things, but their SS thinks that's perfectly fine. Neglect is what their SS is looking for the kids have food, shelter, go to school on time, and are free of bruises so they think that's fine. I think money is another factor, SS shows up and sees the house, cars, and smiling faces, but they don't have the resources to look into things deeper. It's sad really because until something major happens their SS is stuck doing nothing.

As for Anal's newfound energy types, why doesn't she just get her ass a good therapist?

 

[Pinchme]

Very good points! I definitely don't think she is an angel at all and think you're right there.

I have no sympathy for her at all. She has gone along with her manchild abusing her children, she enables him to do so.
She is now in the suitation where the lifestyle they have sold their kids for is too hard to give up, she won't ever leave and take her kids to safety instead they will both carry on with the abuse, until such a time the eldest two make a stand & speak out against them, they will talk about the abuse may even write a book like their abuser, except theirs will be true as we all know everything about their lives, so no hiding the truth, but not until after they have finished therapy.

When that happens & I'm sure it will, J&A will deny it all and blame the trolls, just like they have and are doing now.

The damage they are doing to those kids can never be undone, all for the sake of money

 

[sydneymae]

I think you hit the nail on the head here this is spot on. As much as I dont like the pair I do believe Anna is a victim of his an after reading here about their past and how the met on this thread she appears to have become his victim from the day they met. Gnome has isolated her from friends and family what is her life consisting of where is her social life where is she visitin family members she has one in England and Ireland is a half hour flight away if Im correct in saying that. It saddens me to see photos of her from a few years ago she looked so youthful with some personality and style she looked to have enjoyed putting her outfits together and giving advice on her blog where is all this now? Every ounce of her personality and what makes her HER is gone out the window and he does appear to be in control of her life her hobby’s who she sees what she spends their money on. He made her a trophy wife to make his life appear some type of way but behind the scenes you got an exploitive controlling immature alcoholic with an identity crisis and a woman who has been stripped of her identity and suffering an ED in silence. I do feel sorry for Anna I wish she could see the situation shes in and the damage thats been done by her own partner but sadly its extremely hard for victims to recognise these things and even harder to get out of a toxic situation

I could be so, so wrong.
But from everything I've read lately it seems to me that J is a compulsive liar. I suspect Anna fell for him before the cracks in his facade began to show. One way or another she became isolated from family and friends. Moved (maybe as a way to isolate her or to avoid his past catching up with him)
Anna had an Ed and so had her own mental health battles to deal with, insecurities and perhaps these might have been played upon. I don't get the feeling she was able to talk to J about it properly, even though I know people with an ED tend to hide it. However, underneath it all she wasn't feeling happy in herself, depressed and anxious.
They moved, had children, had success.
I think for J it was his way of going "look at me, I've done so well for myself. Look at my beautiful wife, my children, my house, my cars" I think this relates back to his past.
I think J steered the ship. More children, more this, more that etc.
I think Anna got lost in parenting which all too easily happens. Lost her own identity, her friends she may have gained through having children. Her struggles with the end of breastfeeding etc, her ED again.
I believe she loves children and loves the children she has but perhaps wasn't ready to deal with 4 children when her partner is probably filming, creating, editing every day. No sense of a real routine for herself so she created one. She exercises.
I think she goes to bed early to accommodate the exercise but also as a way of avoiding J where big cracks have begun to show in his facade. I don't think he is as nice as he portrays. I think he has some anger issues. I think Anna can be scared of him.
My concerns re cold showers is perhaps this was done to J in some way or it was his idea and Anna was struggling so took his lead. I think J fills her head with stuff.
I'm not sure what J gets out of giving his children cold showers. It is disturbing to me but not just due to the physical act of doling out punishment. I think perhaps there is more to it there.
I think all this with eduardo is such a shame and just not right. With J behaving how he is I think Anna doesn't see a way out with this. She has some form of stability with him. I can't imagine she feels comfortable with any of this and potentially that depression has or will resurface.
I actually kind of feel for Anna. I could be wrong in all this, I know she isn't innocent and has been complicit with things but I also think she has had her head twisted by J. I think J barrages her with his opinion, his opinion about trolls, brings it up and makes her doubt her abilities to parent properly, makes her fear doing wrong for the repercussions.
I don't know but it's all so sad and disturbing to me.
Also, I haven't watched their vlogs for a while but feel we don't see much of alessia? I also recall them saying as their kids got older they would film them less but that doesn't seem to be the case.
The relationship between E1 and E2 is so sad in terms of the favouritism. I suspect A2 will probably end up being the most unaffected by the whole thing as it may well have imploded with the older ones by the time he is older. His personality at the moment seems to be rather chill.
J's demeanour has changed so much from when I used to watch regularly. There does appear to be some strange sexual undertone to a lot of his content. It's creepy and weird. His face expressions in the tiktoks are strange and annoying to me.
They have beautiful children and I think we are all really rooting for the kids. I know I am.
Sadly, I think the only way out of their current situation is if Anna leaves J. That's the only way she might keep her kids if it comes to it. J isn't helping. If I were her I'd be livid about him broadcasting about the alcohol, about him making them look worse, about ranting and raving, and all the swearing etc. I suspect she is scared of him, depressed that he isn't who she thought he was, trapped, alone and lost and now facing issues again with SS.

 

[chasechoochoo]

i still wanna know what the duck he was on about with that glasses post because it was so stupid

 

[Burnbook94]

i still wanna know what the duck he was on about with that glasses post because it was so stupid

it was clearly one of his great inspiration metaphors. Almost as good as letting go of the skin machine

 

[Secretadmirer]

Wow I am shocked with Anna’s latest posts. She’s always put her Dad on a pedestal now she’s very openly not by saying he made mistakes and she’s blamed him for things. To randomly post that is weird

 

[Eileen_2019]

All 3 saccone girls clearly have body image issues, I wonder did the dad make comments on their weight or image growing up. Their mum seems to be a bigger lady though. I would say he was very old school especially when it came to discipline. Hence why Anna thinks a cold shower is nothing.

Yes, the cold showers are more than likely from her side. Also the 'you've been naughty, hold out your hand so I can slap it' discipline she did/does.

 

[Heidi77]

Wow I am shocked with Anna’s latest posts. She’s always put her Dad on a pedestal now she’s very openly not by saying he made mistakes and she’s blamed him for things. To randomly post that is weird

Anna just wait till Emilia posts something similar about you and your no good husband. When she realises her entire existence was about money and giving you two the easy life. I don't think her fancy private education will give her much comfort.

 

[Secretadmirer]

Anna just wait till Emilia posts something similar about you and your no good husband. When she realises her entire existence was about money and giving you two the easy life. I don't think her fancy private education will give her much comfort.

Exactly this! If her Dad made mistakes and she knows exactly what then she needs to look at her own parenting and what they’re putting their kids through.

 

[chasechoochoo]

it was clearly one of his great inspiration metaphors. Almost as good as letting go of the skin machine

dude needs to see a doctor

 

[evoway13]

What's going to happen when Apple starts scanning their phones? It's going to be very interesting......

 

[Eyesopened]

Joliar it’s not two weeks ( he answered a question on tik tok) it’s 4 weeks till they start school 6th sept .

 

[Bon Qui Qui]

Off topic but it seems Anna's newest bestie Judy hasn't posted once about Anna's new clothing line. I mean Anna did gain her a thousand new followers the least she could do is help promote her bestie's line. Another fake friendship poor dumb Anna thinks is real. I mean even if you didn't think your friend needed your help promoting it wouldn't you at least post a congratulations I'm so proud of you post? I know both the top cult members the Emily's probably posted all about how proud and excited they were for Anna!

 

[Susuriri]

I'm with you on all the points you mentioned however I strongly believe Anna has a deceiving and manipulative personality. Whenever there is any problem she acts the victim.In one of their old vlogs, where Jonathan debates whether to invite his father to their wedding or not, I pay attention to Anna's reaction and it's so sly. The look in her eyes is so evil. Also the old vlog where Anna and her mother are swimming in the cold. Its obviously cold.Everyone is in some sort of jacket. It seemed to me that Margaret wanted to take control of the situation and Anna was too. I duno I get uneasy feeling about them both- not just Jonathan.

 

[lizzies]

In the new members video I am still a member from before all this got really bad. Jonathan is vile he is so transparent, he won’t even let Anna have time with her friend he keeps butting in talking crap and is so very rude. Anna face says it all she isn’t amused, he always has to be the centre of attention the narcissist that he is, he can’t even let his wife have limelight vlogging her friend and keeping out of the way like husbands do when us women have our friends over. He is steaming drunk in the vlog intro also the man is to put it simply just not a very nice person and hasn’t grown up in the slightest. Anna’s mother is coming to stay I hope she gives him what’s for but I doubt she will.

 

[Heidi77]

I'm surprised he hasn't orchestrated a full out between Anna and Margaret.

 

[Bon Qui Qui]

I'm surprised he hasn't orchestrated a full out between Anna and Margaret.

I suspect it's bc he doesn't view Margaret as a threat to his control. She seems to be very massive when it comes to her daughter and the exploitation of her grandkids.

 

[onething]

does anyone else think Eduardos ‘selfie’ was actually taken by Jonathan pretending it’s taken by Eduardo???? Wtf me a 20 year old can not even take a photo on my camera like that of myself? Even eduardos hand doesn’t match with how it would look if he was the one taking the selfie .. Just another lie by jono ... STOP USING YOUR KID !!!!