My parents would literally tell me to catch a grip and get back into my house - they have done so when I’ve taken my little boy out with a simple cold and they were absolutely right. I honestly can’t imagine what they would say if my 12 week old was in an ambulance and I was fannying around doing something utterly unnecessary the next day - we’ll, actually I can imagine it would be something along the lines of “are you stupid?”. She’s a complete moron, really and truly, she obviously hasn’t got passed the selfishness that was stopping her from having children in the first place.