I have a friend who has just had a beautiful extension done, yet spends zero time at home because she gets depressed. As a knock on of this, her children cannot just play or amuse themselves. They just destroy everything, I bet this is what happens here.
She never just lives in the moment, every break soaking it up is planned to get engagement up and she's still taking a million photos.
Don't get me wrong, my two fight like anything but Friday is always our stay at home and catch up day...she's bonkers.