This is just my opinion from everything I’ve seen of Ruby she comes across like a selfish and mean person. She seems like the kind of friend that is always jealous of you , never truly happy for you and guilt trips you. I bet she’s hard work to be friends with cause she’s immature but also she has a horrible bitchy streak in her. If she can’t have what you have or get to do the things you do that she wishes she could be doing too she’ll take it out on you because she’s filled with jealousy and bitterness.
Ruby always seems annoyed that she is a mum who has the responsibility of two children cause she definitely would rather be child free and able to do whatever she wants cause it’s like she sees her kids as an inconvenience to her cause she doesn’t enjoy being a mum she isn’t maternal and she’s always getting someone else to take care of the kids cause she doesn’t want the responsibility she wants to go out and do her own thing. I don’t know what her friend Jess is like as a person or what kind of friend she is ( I am assuming the friend she’s currently making these angry tiktoks about is Jess because I haven’t ever heard or seen any other friend Ruby has) but what I will say is there’s a lot of evidence to back up Jess to show she’s been there for Ruby and the kids spending time with them , helping Ruby and being there when Lorenzo treated her like shit so I’m not saying Jess can do no wrong as that’s not my place to say that about a situation I don’t know about but she doesn’t seem like a fake friend from what I’ve seen of her so I wouldn’t be surprised if Ruby is the problem.
I had a look at Jess instagram and looks like she’s been on holiday recently with friends and to a festival /concert so maybe Ruby is just jealous that Jess gets to have the life that Ruby wishes she could have and maybe she’s jealous that Jess has a group of friends she has fun with whereas Rubys whole world revolves around Lorenzo and TikTok and maybe she expects Jess to make her life revolve around Ruby , give her attention all the time , help take care of her kids for her the way everyone else in Rubys life does because she’s spoilt so nobody says no to her but the fact Jess has her own life outside of Ruby is probably something Ruby doesn’t like. If that’s the case then Ruby needs to grow up because that is such a bitter selfish way to live. If you care about your friend you would be happy to see them happy enjoying their life and if they care about you they’ll still make time for you and be part of your life but they don’t have to give up their life for you.
If you have a friend who spends a lot of time with you and your kids that’s lovely but it doesn’t make someone a fake or bad friend if they don’t spend a lot of the time with you and your kids cause firstly the kids aren’t a friends responsibility and secondly people have other things going on in their lives like work, uni, health or family problems , relationships and friendships with other people they are entitled to see and make plans with and they’re not a bad person for not making their life revolve around spending all their time with you looking after your kids Ruby.
Of course there are situations when someone can be a fake or bad friend to you and that’s not an easy thing to experience especially for anyone who’s had a baby and then a friend or friends don’t make effort with you at all they don’t even call to see how you are and that type of situation is a fake friend situation it’s sad. I’m not saying I’m right cause I don’t know what’s going on between Ruby and whatever friend she’s speaking about but Ruby seems like the kind of friend who makes you feel bad or guilty for being happy without her. The TikToks Ruby is making at her age it’s very cringe how immature she is.