It went to a good comp and managed to get a 2:1 from a Russell Group. I’d be furious if I were her parents and paid so much for education for Ruby to be the way she is. She lacks all the character private schools are known for instilling.
does anyone know what her parents do? I knew that they were wealthy but I didn’t realise they were THAT wealthy. To put both of them through private school at £28000 a year is crazy. That’s nearly my year salary!
Ruby has her issues, I'm not defending her all of her behaviour here, but I'd argue that private schools don't instil character. They are institutions run for profit that ensure that the children of wealthy remain wealthy. They ensure the offspring of the wealthy pass state exams and take up as many extra-circular activities as possible in order to appear viable candidates for top universities. They introduce their students to the 'right' type of people who can open doors for them when it comes to getting into the world of work. And parents of private school children expect nothing less, because they are paying hefty fees. They want their money's worth. These private schools/competitive parents plan their kid's futures to the point where you'd wonder where does the young person's own free-will and desires come into it. The private schools (and culture they create as a byproduct of this) care not about a young person's personal development or mental health at all, all they care about is creating students who are a walking advertisement for their schools. Highly successful young people... on paper.
My best friend was sent to a hyper-competitive, elite girls school after graduation, when she entered the 'real world' and went to university.. well, she had a nervous breakdown and ended up being sectioned under the mental health act. Like Ruby, she had lived such a sheltered life where the metrics of success were predetermined for her. So when she was forced to interact with people outside this elite bubble and deal with independence in uni, she couldn't.
And tbh, I think some of this cycle of elitism and expectations apply to Ruby. I'm not excusing some of her behaviours, but I think the sheltered and meticulously planned environments she grew up in is partly to blame for the way she is.