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yerdasellsavon

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To be fair, creepy ≠ automatic n, and I don’t think anyone is suggesting that she is one either.
However, Ruby has an extremely unhealthy interest in childhood which has in the past lead her to befriend minors online / encourage younger viewers to contact her, and I just there is always something creepy about an adult who seems to prefer the company of kids over people their own age, regardless of their intentions. She isn’t getting paid to go to her old school, she hasn’t been invited there, and from the way she has spoken about it, it seems like the purpose of her visit is to see students rather than her old teachers.
It's like Michael Jackson befriending children. Even if he said there were no sinister intentions, writing to them, befriending them and liking them for their "innocence" is something I can very much see Ruby doing. Her old school should not be her own version of Neverland.

She's very lucky she's a female in this sense as cannot imagine the (very fair) backlash if she was a male.

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Christ...

I have no words. Beyond creepy that she knows and befriends people going into Year 13, who would have been 13 at the time she left. She definitely sees herself as some idol figure to them or some great inspiration. It's actually quite sickening.
 
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GoinDowntown

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It’s nice to see Ruby feeling comfortable in a crop top though, normally she’s still wearing a jumper in the blistering heat!
So her best friend is Natasha now?
What happened to Ruby + Blakeney BFF forever and ever?
 
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gossip_guy

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If a 2:1 meets entry requirements (presumably providing the course isn't oversubscribed and you nail an interview) then why would her dissertation mark of 74 be remotely of concern? I think our amazing gossip_guy nailed it when he said she felt entitled to a 'publishable' mark. And therein lies the problem.
And she's still beating that drum. What she saw as a low, disappointing grade wasn't enough to humble her in any way.

She's talking about how grades could be higher if a different lecturer marks them. In this video, even as she's saying numbers don't matter, she says that it's more important that you learn something (she certainly didn't) but also that your work is "contributing something to the field".

She's completely divorced from reality. In what world is every undergrad essay "contributing something to the field"? It's not, and it's not supposed to. But that was her expectation for herself.

She wanted to deliver a Masters-grade dissertation thesis at undergrad level and leave a lasting mark. She wanted people to cite her thesis in later essays. She fully expected that and felt entitled to it. Instead she got the same grade as almost half the students there. She only got that because she cut corners, scammed the system, and Exeter were handing out Firsts like Mars Bars on Halloween.

She learned nothing and will only be remembered by her uni as "that weird, annoying girl who dressed like an orphaned chambermaid and wouldn't stop harassing the staff with letters and emails". She's completely unremarkable, and she's wasted years to ultimately not get what she wanted.

 
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gossip_guy

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"She clearly did none of the reading." Proof, please?

Yes, I dislike Ruby. As much as the next guy on this thread. But you all seem to think that Exeter has no checks in place. You CANNOT survive without doing the reading, or prep. You can have all the access to other people's notes in the world (my friends and I frequently shared notes, extra reading, and viewpoints), but if you've not done the work and got the understanding, you WILL fail. I had to borrow other people's notes for an assessment (due to my nan passing away) and I got a 48. The one I did with my own reading? A 68. There is a difference between sharing ideas (which, by the way, is the entire point of university.) and relying on someone else to do all your work. Ruby would not have got a first without doing her own work. Love her or hate her, she had to work independently, and produce work of a good quality, to get that grade. The markers at Exeter are harsh.

Getting other people's input on modules you perhaps struggle with is not a crime. I am sure that, if Ruby really was relying on Blakeney, she would not have got the grades she did, nor would she have progressed past first year. It is drilled into everyone, in your first week, that academic misconduct is serious, and will result in you failing assessments and possibly even being kicked out. Ruby clearly did not engage in this. The essay long posts that you produce will not change that. Saying things like that just devalue this thread. It takes all of our valid points (about her body checking/eating disorder, her toxic productivity, her privilege, etc etc.) and gives her something to focus on to make sure she can ignore any of the points raised here. Like it or not, she earned a first class from a top university. Whether or not you believe that was "easy", she did it. And now what matters is how she puts it to use. Saying she didn't do the work just gives her a reason to turn a blind eye to everything said on here.
People do not read Sparknotes summaries, produce character lists in Notion and read critical essays before reading the main text. People do not read the criticals essays before the main texts. There's just no reason for that if they're approaching the learning process as intended on the level. Yet that's what Ruby says she did.

At best, it's one of the most stupid and suspicious things she's ever said. At worst, it's a very clear indication that she skipped the required reading entirely often if not all the time in favour of condensed study guides intended to provide everything a student needs to not bother reading the book, and read critical material first to have someone intelligent to parrot

Having a chat with a friend/fellow student about an essay or part of a text you're confused about is one thing. Scheduling a fixed meeting with them before (and often after) every single seminar and lecture is wildly unnecessary for anyone. And Ruby said on multiple occassions that she "didn't understand her own thoughts" on the required reading/lectures until Blakeney discussed it with her. She could not spell it out any more if she tried.

She either didn't read the required material herself and struggled to understand the nuances of the material because she'd only read truncated synopses and study guides, or she read the material and even with the lectures she sat through and the study guides she (for some reason) read before the main text, failed to understand any of what she read despite them being fairly straightforward books to study at undergrad and her claiming to be a genius.

She outright says, with no ambiguity: She got Blakeney to read critical essays for her and tell her what was in them. Letting other students to do the recommended reading for you is not doing the work as intended. It is not engaging with the learning process. It's not technically cheating, but I'm sure if any of her tutors were aware of it, they'd have immediate concerns, especially combined with everything else she's said and shown.

I'm not saying she did no work or that she was outright plagiarising. I'm saying that she took every dodgy shortcut possible to avoid doing as much work of her own as she could. She laid out her process for all to see as much as she could without outright admitting to it. She skipped the required reading as much as possible in favour of study guides transposed into Notion. She got Blakeney to do half the required critical reading and meet with her before every single academic appointment so that she understood the reading assignments and had things to say in the seminar.

So far, Ruby's done nothing for herself and all the basic foundation work is taken care of, buying her a lot of time to look at critical reading outside the recommended reading lists, which is what they look at for higher grades. Along with online resources, she also showed that she used Genei and advertised it heavily - a researching tool intended to give you condenced versions of full critical essays and journals.

Any other student would be doing the required reading themselves, reading the book or play (first, before anything else) and forming their own thoughts, then reading the recommended critical material themselves. Ruby quite blatantly didn't do that, so she had an abundance of extra time (not factoring in her zero extracurriculars and zero non-academic responsibilities) that other students didn't have to look at wider critical material.

From there, I completely believe that, given her regular habit of reading the critical material before even looking at the main text, she either looked for an angle in a critical essay that she liked, used the argument as the basic for her essay and reverse-engineered an essay from that/Blakeney's thoughts and ideas. She showed that she regularly sent very leading, very long emails to lecturers to coax ideas from them or to steer her in a direction.

I assume Exeter is like most English lit undergrad degrees where essay questions are pre-written by the lecturer and students get a few to choose from, meaning that it would've been incredibly easy for her to get the solid skeleton of an essay put together without doing the required reading and relying heavily on the thoughts, opinions and ideas of Blakeney, lecturers and authors of critical works.

Academic cheating checks are not going to catch that, because it's not copy-and-paste plagiarism.

Seminar tutors aren't going to flag it because Ruby knows the basic story, characters and themes from the study guides and she's had Blakeney unwittingly coach her on the seminar questions under the guise of a study chat in the form of a mandatory pre-seminar debrief session.

Grading tutors aren't likely to see anything because there's only a finite amount of arguments to offer within the confines of a prewritten essay question, and on paper Ruby looks to have read the text, understood it, have original thoughts and read and quoted a wide range of critical material to support and contrast her ideas.

Factor in grade inflation at Exeter, and yes, it's very easy to get a First if you take the shortcuts and have all the time and resources that Ruby did. You also wouldn't be learning anything or improving your own ability to engage with material critically, which is the major problem Ruby has: Even after years of studying literature at university, she's fundamentally incapable of critical thought, or even basic thought. She robbed herself of the whole point of university and has nothing to show for it but a grade she didn't earn.

That's might not be academic cheating, but it is cheating herself and her viewers. Because she didn't learn anything at uni but how to take shortcuts to avoid learning. And she still presents herself to her impressionable fans as a studious, naturally gifted genius bookworm, despite all evidence to the contrary. She presents her methods as the way to get ahead, when if you approach things her way (reading study guides and critical essays before the main text or strongarming your roommate into endless study session to discuss pretty rudimentary material or getting other people to do the reading for you) you'll learn nothing.

Considering Ruby keeps beating the drum that she's so in love with the process of learning, she sure did seem to avoid doing it at all costs.

Yes, her attachment to the past is weird and it’s clear she’s got some issues. However, having a mentor-like relationship with girls who are interested in academia is actually not an evil thing. There are comments from girls who knew her as head girl and talk about how nice she was to them. Having experience with bullying and loneliness herself, she was probably a helpful figure for some of the girls. Haven’t you ever met the weird horse girl librarian who’s awkward but still nice and harmless? It’s the same energy for me.

I actually think that helping younger people is a nice trait to have and it’s honestly ridiculous how quickly it got compared to stories of people being sexually abused. Like, come on.
Ruby does not help young people.

Ruby pushes toxic and dangerous habits onto impressionable children and gives the direct inference that chugging water all day long and studying 12 hour days is the key to academic success.

Her "daily" vlogs are a collection of fabricated lies and footage assembled from multiple days which show herself accomplishing far more in a 24 hour period than is physical possible, while she doesn't eat anything resembling a healthy meal.

Impressionable young kids aren't going to see through those lies. They're going to emulate Ruby, and work themselves to death on a diet of water and snack bars striving to keep up with an impossible routine.

When asked to stop showing toxic and triggering content, lie her obsession with shoehorning ED-baiting content into videos unrelated to food, Ruby has refused. She's plead ignorance and lied and avoided the issue and gaslighted people over it and never, ever changed. She is not a nice person, despite how she may try desperately to appear so.

Ultimately we don't know whether Ruby's obsessive fixation with children has a sexual element, however unlikely it might seem. But regardless, Ruby is a dangerous and toxic influence on children out in the open for all to see. Nobody should trust her to be talking to kids behind closed doors and she is no role model to anyone.
 
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Somehow critical thinking and calling someone out for non acceptable behavior always gets twisted into being jealous.
I'm jealous of the life I could have if I had Ruby's money and privilege. I'm not jealous of her actual life at all.
 
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I would also add that all the references to gr*oming and ped*philia and sexual abuse to be inappropriately used and quite demeaning to actual cases and victims.
Ruby is such a sexless person and that is usually remarked upon here along with her childish behaviour and mindset, but then it switches to “be careful out there” as if she’s Ted Bundy or something.

Yes, her attachment to the past is weird and it’s clear she’s got some issues. However, having a mentor-like relationship with girls who are interested in academia is actually not an evil thing. There are comments from girls who knew her as head girl and talk about how nice she was to them. Having experience with bullying and loneliness herself, she was probably a helpful figure for some of the girls. Haven’t you ever met the weird horse girl librarian who’s awkward but still nice and harmless? It’s the same energy for me.

I actually think that helping younger people is a nice trait to have and it’s honestly ridiculous how quickly it got compared to stories of people being sexually abused. Like, come on.
It's incredibly dangerous for you to be perpetuating this idea that because Ruby doesn't look or act the way you think a pedophile does, she can't possibly be one. If you have this image that pedophiles always have to be older men with greasy hair crouching in windowless vans you can throw that out right now. Pedophiles can be (and often are) attractive, charming people who occupy a valued place in their community. So many people who have experienced assault and abuse have struggled to be believed because their abuser "is a good person". Comments like yours are what are demeaning to these people.
No one is making a direct accusation that Ruby committed a pedophilic act, only that her actions so far have raised many red flags and warrant caution in that vein.
Even if her actions are not pedophilic in nature, they can still be predatory and damaging. She openly flaunts her disordered eating behaviors and does nothing to denote them as negative. It's not much of a jump to imagine her encouraging these behaviors in young girls she "mentors". Her studying habits and outlook on academia are toxic and since that is her whole brand, I assume that is what she wants to mentor people in. Passing those traits on to people who look up to her so much is a terrible idea.
Ruby has no qualifications to be a mentor to teens. Having once been a teen does not make a person fit to guide someone through their teen years. If Ruby truly wanted to impart some helpful wisdom she thinks she possesses, she could easily have set up a website where young girls could write in anonymously and she could respond with advice. A "dear Ruby" column if you will. Still carries the potential to cause harm but much less creepy than asking for teenage girls' home mailing address. There's also plenty of organized avenues to go through if you want to work with young people. She could easily have applied to work at an after-school program as a mentor or tutor. Then she would be in a controlled environment where the parents of these children are aware of the relationship.
Being an older student at school and acting as a "big sister " to younger students is wildly different from trying to form relationships with them as a grown adult. The power balance is completely off and the life experience gap is much greater. Her behavior in regards to children is completely inappropriate.
 
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gossip_guy

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Have you watched the Jenny Nicholson video on Dear Evan Hansen?
I have! Jenny is amazing!

So many questions. Why is her school enabling her to do these return visits? After one year, perhaps, but this is all for feeding Ruby's delusional state that she's still the biggest fish in a small pond, and not a grown ass adult who has graduated. From a safeguarding point of view, I would not be happy as a ££££ paying parent that the school allows an adult on the premises and watch their children. Ruby may not be a danger to anyone but herself, though the whole point of safeguarding is working from the assumption that anyone can be a threat.
It'll soon be revealed that Ruby's just going back to school to gather research for her next book: Erimentha Parker's Mid-Life Crisis.

45 year-old Erimentha is still living with mummy and daddy and still looking down on "immature" black sheep brother Nathan, who's now a millionaire philanthropist and prized neurosurgeon living in Sweden. Erimentha's on her 23rd gap year and her 57th literary agent and has still not found a publisher who appreciates her innate genius.

She yearns nostalgically for the simpler, more joyful and carefree times, mainly that extended period of time at school when she had no friends and was savagely bullied in a series of increasingly unbelievable ways. Erimentha decides to take advantage of a loophole in her former private school's charter rules and re-enrols to do high school all over again. This time it'll all be different.

On her first second day of Year 7, she's delighted to see that her favourite teacher, Mr. Aldridge, is now the school headmaster. He immediately goes on indefinite mental health leave after seeing Erimentha triggers a PTSD flashback. Upon hearing the news, Erimentha remarks that leaving school in the middle of the day sets a bad example for the students. A friendly, bookish student asks if 45 year-old Erimentha has ever had a job. The polite words of this small, inquisitive child sting Erimentha like a slap to the face - Erimentha has been bullied once again!

Mr. Aldridge isn't the only familiar face that Erimentha encounters on her first day. Her old nemesis Kimblerly/Kimberley/Kimberlee works at the school! And her daughter, also named Kimblerly/Kimberley/Kimberlee, is in Erimentha's class, and she's Erimentha's new "bully"!

Erimentha sets about righting the wrongs of the past by ensuring that well-behaved, polite, thoughtful and generous straight-A student Kimblerleylylee Jr. never "bullies" another student like her mother apparently did. Erimentha enacts a plot for revenge, intent on driving an innocent 11 year old girl out of school and eliminating all competition for top-of-the-class status.

For real though, she's beyond creepy and the school/PTA should be shutting this shit down pronto.

She has a storied history of having an obsessive fixation with childhood and fictional children. She's still gluing collages of Anne Shirley in her planner and taping pictures of kids all over her wall, for god's sake.

Given her constant attempts to try to socialise with young children, foster penpal relationships with them and her tendency to keep sending gifts her young penpals, this is something that her parents and the school should nip in the bud right now.

If her school asked her to pop pack to give a speech about her influencer career, that'd be one thing. But her actively hounding them and begging to come back to give a speech to kids on a topic she's completely uninformed about, then attending school events not to socialise with adult staff, but to "see who the new head girl will be", this is nothing but red flags.
 
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Deeznutslol

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The people trying to make out like we’ve all sat here and accused Ruby of being a n are actually jarring tbh.
At no point did anyone say that, all that has been said is that it is NOT normal for a woman of her age to repeatedly seek out contact with children and try to form relationships with them, regardless of her intentions.
 
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yerdasellsavon

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Ruby should really look at Holly and realise doing a master's is not a good idea. With her grades, Ruby would walk into Oxbridge no problem, sure. But it's more of the same isn't it? Just more top grades, inevitably, no work experience etc. What's Holly doing with hers now, nothing by the looks of it.
If she really wants to be an author she would be better off doing a creative writing type master's - not offered at Oxbridge to my knowledge. For example, Sophie Mackintosh wrote The Water Cure during a similar course at Warwick and it was shortlisted for the Man Booker prize.
The only reason she wants to go to Oxford is because it's "the dream she had since she was 12", wants to vindicate her earlier rejection, put out Oxford YouTube videos and have the kudos of going there.

It's absolutely nothing to do with it being the best choice for her, as it probably isn't. It's to earn recognition.
 
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Welshgal

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Somehow critical thinking and calling someone out for non acceptable behavior always gets twisted into being jealous.

Why would I be jealous of Ruby? (apart from being ultra rich apparently but even then I prefer my own life so much more that not even money could temp me to live Ruby’s life).
 
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Not sure if it's been mentioned in these threads before but every Exeter student has access to Studiosity. If you don't know, it's an external service that proofreads your essay for you and gives you advice on structure. Her high marks could also be because she makes use of this (you can make up to ten submissions in one academic year, which is more than enough for her to run every assignment through it). What we see in her videos might be before someone's actually fixed it for her. We all know she'd never actually include footage of her uploading her essay to Studiosity because it wouldn't fit the image she wants 13 year old children to have of her.
 
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figgypud

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I'm 100% sure there's no sexual motive to Ruby's interactions with young teenagers but she's still using young people for her own wish fulfillment under the guise of "helping" or "mentoring" them. It's not for their benefit, it's entirely for hers.
 
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The video opens with a genuinely pretty shot of the fields around Ruby's house.

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Nice to see she's getting lots of mileage out of that drone.

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Lucky us: Ruby is working on the STRACTURE of a new book. Is it just me or is Ruby writing a 'new' book every time she uploads a video?

At 1:36-1:37 there is a very unsettling jumpy edit. Just warning you all about that. If I had to describe it poetically, I'd say it sounds as if Ruby has opened her mouth and her words have fallen down the stairs after Mother Granger.

Ruby is wearing her Bite-Back T-shirt again. It's the conservation charity that flogs a lot of merch but doesn't seem to do much IRL. However, Ruby tells us that they 'work with sharks' which is nice of them. I always support inclusive office spaces.

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Ruby appears in front of the camera, wagging her finger obnoxiously. ''It's really rather hot'' she pants. ''But not as hot as I thought it would be!'' she adds. Confusingly, this implies that Ruby believed it would be even hotter than 'rather hot'. So...very hot? but still decided to go for a run. 🤷‍♀️

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''I ended up lying down in the FOYLAGE.'' It's clear that Ruby means foliage, but she really does pronounce it FOYLAGE. Timestamp is about 2:50 if you need to hear it for yourself. She says it so confidently, too. 😭

So, Ruby has chosen to run in the evening because it's cooler, but she's actually finding it rather hot, despite thinking that it would be even hotter. The water bottle she carries everywhere is absent from this one scenario where she might actually need it. In a state of dehydration-induced delirium, Ruby decides to lie down on a bed of insect infested leaves (or FOYLAGE) because her mother told her about something called 'cloudbathing'. I believe Ruby means 'forest bathing' or shinrin-yoku, a practice that originated in Japan but has become trendy in the UK. Of course, Ruby gets it wrong and tries to bathe in the clouds rather than the forest.

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Woodland Corpse Ruby is thankfully a short-lived segment of the video. Soon, she's up and running like a maniac again.

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Dog Granger - best of all the Grangers - pops up again. I think she's doing ✨cloudbathing✨. 😊

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Ruby has a shower and then heads outside to do yoga - another of her mother's suggestions. Ruby says she hasn't done yoga for ages, so it's not a typical part of her routine...except for all those videos where she claims to do yoga every single day as part of her daily routine. I'm confused too.

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They eat a bunch of picnic-y foods that I can't be bothered to screenshot. But then, horror! Ruby crunches some chocolate close to the camera. It might be an attempt to shoehorn ASMR into the video, but it sounds as though her teeth are cracking.

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Ruby finds Dog Granger resting on the sofa. ''Lola, you're in my spot,'' she complains, channelling Sheldon Cooper. After shoving Lola off the seats, Ruby and Mother Granger watch Malory Towers. Is it just me or have they been watching this series for at least a year? Does it ever end?

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Ruby's started talking about how 'we' like this and 'we' do that, as though her family are one big hive mind. Here she says that they (Ruby & Mother Granger) like to have peppermint tea before bed. There are more gross chewing sounds.

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Ruby then talks about a Disney channel show that I've never heard of - apparently it's the one that caused her to start wearing ties? (Sidenote: I find it strange that she claims to only watch half a movie in the evenings.) This segues into an ad for NordVPN. I skipped that bit.

I skimmed through her skincare routine but paused because she's doing that annoying reading-while-brushing thing again. It looks like a great way to get flecks of toothpaste and water on your book. Ruby tells us she's reading Friends Like These by Meg Rosoff but says nothing about its content or whether she's enjoying the book.

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Ruby shows us her supplements.

*Should point out that iron and vitamin d supplements should be approached with caution. Iron is mostly harmless because supplement doses are low, but there's no need to take vitamin d unless you have a deficiency. Both are a waste of time unless you need to take them. I recommend getting a blood test and finding out for sure. End of PSA.

My favourite part of this video is where she admires the stars and the obvious looming UFO. It's like that scene in a movie where the abductee is lured out into the cornfields, hypnotised by the bright flickering lights. Ruby being Ruby, she decides to walk outside like a zombie to take a look. Pretty sure she's wearing pyjamas at this point, so the whole section looks like a sleepwalking montage.

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I loved this shot at the end of her video. The boater is on the corner of Ruby's bed, not her head, but I had to double-check just to make sure Ruby hadn't gone totally barmy and started wearing hats in bed.

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