Cáca_Milis
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She looks like a cast member of Footballer's Wives. So tacky, so dated and trashy. She really needs a make over..... Or under?! Herself and Claudine Keane are really stuck in the 90's W.A.G. era.
Oh ffs , come on!! The surrogacy debate has happened on this thread before, don’t kick it off again.I suppose if she was nice she wouldn't have used a disadvantaged woman's womb in the Ukraine!
I have huge concerns about surrogacy and I'm always surprised how willingly people go along with it as if it's normal. Firstly rich women are never ever surrogates. They pay poor women to do it. So immediately it turns the surrogate into a commodity. Secondly pregnancy and childbirth are risky. Best case scenario you hand over the baby with a few extra stretch marks and a sore gee. Worst case you die in childbirth, have a bad haemorrhage, need a hysterectomy, get a tear, become incontinent, get pnd......the list is endless. I understand Rosanna had heartbreak, but it doesn't give her the right to buy a women's body. I think surrogacy is going to be very harshly judged in the future. I think doing it for a family member is completely different btwThe way she's documented the surrogacy is really distasteful imo. Fair enough explain the situation, but going on about it is another.
It literally took the year between looking for a surrogate and being handed the baby. This only happens to very wealthy, privileged people.
Surrogacy is a very lengthy and costly road that many people cannot go down. She seems to show no sensitivity to those people.
We all know her heartbreaking story but seriously would she ever stop posting pregnancy throwback, she's always at it. And sorry but I'm sick looking at the back of her kids heads. If you don't want your kids on SM good for you but it must be hard work snapping pictures making sure all 3 aren't facing the camera. Why bother, just leave them off SM.Putting a throwback up of your twins pregnancy scan? Bit personal for social media - not sure why she would feel the need to share this!
That’s a disgusting suggestion to make. There are many ways to bring a 4th child into her family, including surrogacy which she’s already done and adoption.Just saw a headline somewhere this morning, Rosanna hasn't ruled out having a 4th child....
Which begs the question...was her inability to have children really an issue?
Sounds more and more like a publicity stunt.
My Dad practically catapults himself out of my house when I go to breastfeed my childI remember her Playboy cover...... Did she say her dad approved of the pictures and was proud of her? THERES NO WAY ON EARTH I'D SHOW ME DA PICS OF ME WITH ME BAPS OUT!!
What?? That is actually pathetic. Surely that's against advertising standards??? How sad that as a grow woman (who happens to be stunning) she clearly suffers from deep rooted insecurities regarding her appearance. What kind of message is that to send her daughter?I see Rosanna had some sponsored content for a Carter Beauty face mask - which she put on top of a face full of make up??!! I know she’s never seen without an over made up face, but who does that?!?! Then peels the mask off and shows us her glowy skin afterwards - of course it’s glowy, you’ve probably got Charlotte T to thank for that!
You are correct - I have a friend based in Uk who went thru rounds of ivf that failed and years of misery & then went on to get a donor egg and do surrogacy in the Ukraine ( husbands sperm but her egg quality was dire) . About 3 months before baby was due we went on a huge piss up and she got so drunk and started saying they are still trying naturally if she got pregnant now “she wouldn’t have to keep the other baby” and she was having a freak out of not bonding etc . She said another couple she knew got pregnant while going thru surrogacy and kept the 2 ( like wtf isn’t that meant to be a given ) . I was actually sick to my stomach that she was actually thinking that way and that it would even come up as a “would we keep him” . I know she was totally drunk but made me think … if the baby was born with a serious illness would she back out or would she really want to raise him . I dunno there are a lot of red flags with surrogacy and literally it was done thru a private agency and I doubt many checks etc were done. They have their baby now and she has bonded etc but still … always that seed of doubt that they baby could be abandoned at birth if something goes wrong also just to note she’s not a horrible person she’s actually lovely so if someone nice and normal is saying that …. Imagine a total narcissist nutter going thru the processTheres an extremely dark side to surragacy that people dont (cant) soeak about…all surrogate mothers sign NDAs and cannot speak about the experience…im sure 99% of babies born to surrogacy are loved and treated well but there have been cases where a child was born with a disability and literally left behing in ukraine by biological parents (they would have no emotional connection to the baby having not experienced the baby) the surrogate mother is then left to care for the disabled child or it ends up in an orphanage…you dont even want to think about what happens there
Surrogacy in theory is amazing (ie sister to sister etc) but when its commercial its just so wrong and exploitative.
I agree its awful the laws in this country dont support surrogate mothers but its probably the most complex legal issue out there as there are so many ‘what ifs’ and different outcomes….
I've been around here for a while now actually and am all for using the forum. The Good Ole "it's tattle" argument is just another way of saying "I've no other relevant points for my argument so agree with my opinion or shut up" ... Tattle... A place to voice opinions, as you have done and so have I.Tattle is not gonna be the place for you love
I am not cruel and I do understand the desperation that underpins the surrogacy choice. However no one is entitled to a baby by any means nessesary especially when it risks the surrogacys health. When Kim Kardashian or Princess Kate act as a surrogate for someone i'll reconsider. Surely you can see that having to risk your health to give your children an education is a terrible thing and efforts should go to enabling women to do that without selling their wombs. It's such an unbalanced relationship, of course the surrogate was grateful! In your example you say they went from desperate poverty to being able to educate her kids. That's not an altruistic act, it's taking advantage of a desperate person and risking her health. Also the from your post sounds like they used a third world country. They would have to as commercial surrogacy is banned in much of Europe and the women of Europe and given the protection of not havijg to sell their bodies to feed their kidsI get your point
I can see where you are coming from and
I get where you are coming from and at one stage might have felt the same. When you really grapple with the concept of severe infertility though, it becomes very very different. You put everything on the table. My friends used a commercial surrogate. She has 2 children of her own, and with the money from surrogacy she went from a very poor life to being able to give her children a college education. She was very well informed and supported throughout. Herself and my friend became very close, and remain so. She was so honoured to be able to give them their family- she often talked about how proud she was. Lots of jobs people do come with risks to varying degrees. Surely almost any employment is the transfer of the use of a person's body, mind or both for financial gain. I think so long as the industry is regulated, the surrogates are inform and partake with free will and are well cared for physically and emotionally, it can be a wonderful thing. The documentary you, me and surrogacy was an excellent portrayal of normal people with heartbreaking stories. I think it gave a really realistic and balanced view of surrogacy.
I'd say looking after herself takes more time than what she spends taking care of her children. She's got grandparents nearby, but no doubt a cleaner or two, a night nanny, daytime childminder, and a housekeeper that manages the laundry etc. Can't imagine herself even doing a shop in Dunnes and handing over her €10 vouchers and running back to get something else to be able to get another €10 offHow, how has she found the time to write a book when she's looking after 3 small kids