Her podcasts about neurodiversity are just so bizarre and unhelpful! She clearly is in denial about her own autism and the chokehold it has over her life and yet she feels that she's in a position to lecture everyone else about neurodiversity as if she's some kind of expert.
I am starting to think that because she works from home and doesn't really interact with many people outside her family, that she has very little idea of what a non autistic person would behave like. She is surrounded by autism and thinks that Neil is the strange one for not having Disney as a special interest or being interested in her obsessive planning and organising. She has cut anyone out of her life that would dare to question her and attributes any comments she doesn't like on her videos to trolls. I don't know really what can be done in cases like this but I don't think it's at all healthy for the children to grow up with her as the dominant force in their lives unless she seeks some kind of professional help.