Rhi, Disney are changing the fireworks and adding a new show, quick you better book your flights lol
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Has she ever done a live with her children & husband? That would be interesting to see. I don’t think she would cope with a non scripted video 
Her health update makes me so mad. She acts so blooming entitled. I mean she's been so annoyed about being fobbed off with her "health" issues BUT when she finally see's a response she is happy with these procedures can wait until after she has had her Disney trip. So it's obviously not so urgent then Rhi 
I think the three younger kids likely are diagnosed with ASD, although with the girls - especially Zara - that may have been the result of the pressure and demands Rhi placed on the service, and they simply diagnosed her as Rhi insisted, to placate her and stop her from hounding them constantly and kicking off.
she seemed absolutely desperate to ensure all three kids received a diagnosis, whether it was applicable or not, simply because it fit her "expert on autism" content, and allowed her to label herself as a mother of three autistic kids, because it benefits her and justifies the YT vlogs she creates, which give advice on supporting kids with ASD.regardless of their specific diagnoses, Rhi definitely exaggerates their behaviours and struggles etc, because in reality, the footage in her endless vlogs and stories etc very clearly disprove so many of her claims, like the kids not coping with change in routine - yet they are regularly on holiday in totally different time zones and adapt without issue - and the limited foods they eat is predominantly due to Rhi cooking such an unvaried range of meals! when the kids are on holiday, they are happy to try new foods and when they don't feel pressured by Rhi into taking one bite and immediately announcing that they dislike it, they seem perfectly fine to truly new foods and enjoyed most of them - especially in the vlog where they ate a meal with their dad and Rhi wasn't with them! it wa sa totally different vibe - chilled, chatty, the kids laughing and joking with their sad and being given age-appropriate responsibilites like choosing their own food, and they were actually keen to try new foods and said thy loved them! if Rhi had been there, the entire meal would have been scripted, with Rhi expecting the kids to say they hated every new food they tried, simply because she is desperate to push the autism content. it's weird how she is desperate to present her kids as severely autistic, overlooking the fact that so many children are non-verbal etc, yet her kids perfectly perform for every vlog she wants to film, and smile and pose for photos as she demands. i'm not doubting that some - or all three - of the kids may have a diagnosis of ASD, but ultimately, when Rhi talks about the stuff they find difficult, she's actually referring to things that she finds difficult. she uses the ASD label to imply that every difficulty is due to the kids, when in reality it is Rhi herself who struggles with routine and a change in food and all the other things she claims are problems the kids have.
whether Rhi herself has ASD or not - it seems likely she does, and to a degree that is far more severe in the way it presents in her than in any of the children - her main issue seems to be control and everything has to be done her way, with th ekids expected to comply accordingly - even done the point of spending hours of their lives patiently performing to be filmed for vlogs and following scripts etc to avoid Rhi having a meltdown. and talking of meltdowns - Rhi has definitely mentioned them in relation to the kids' behaviour, yet i haven't once seen a single sign of that kind of behaviour, despite the hours and hours of content she shares. and obvs i'm not saying she should be filming her kids if they are struggling emotionally etc, but equally, we all know from the way that Rhi exploits their privacy that if the kids were regularly having meltdowns and behavioural issues, she would be ensuring she captured it in camera solely to prove how "severe" their ASD is, to justify her self-declared autism "expert" status and ability to hand out advice. the fact that the kids are always perfectly behaved and perform exactly as Rhi expects etc very much implies that the way she describes the majority of the behaviours etc that they struggle with are hugely exaggerated, because it benefits her, and the content she wants to create.
Her goal this year is Balance… again. She pushes all this organisation and routine rubbish on her viewers yet doesn’t really follow it herself. There’s people in the world who have actual jobs and multiple children and still have more balance than her… what is so hard!
Think she struggles most with balance when she has filmed their entire holiday and has to edit 48+ hours of film from a 4 day Disney holiday. But even when she says she is struggling for time to do it she still takes 6 weeks to get the content out. I just don’t get it.
Think she struggles most with balance when she has filmed their entire holiday and has to edit 48+ hours of film from a 4 day Disney holiday. But even when she says she is struggling for time to do it she still takes 6 weeks to get the content out. I just don’t get it.
No Consultant contradicts another. Doctors always back each other. Also you do not get a higher Consultant, they all have their team of Doctors beneath them which are Registrar, House officers etc. I really think she makes it up.Her health update makes me so mad. She acts so blooming entitled. I mean she's been so annoyed about being fobbed off with her "health" issues BUT when she finally see's a response she is happy with these procedures can wait until after she has had her Disney trip. So it's obviously not so urgent then Rhi
Do you think Bella brought the switch with her money or rhi reads here and thought she better get her kids a proper Christmas present all bit it late!
I can’t even believe what I’ve just heard in her latest video. William really wants a switch which Rhi didn’t bother getting for Christmas but Bella has bought one out of her birthday money so even his younger sister has had something he wants before him! Unbelievable
I totally agree when my son was diagnosed it was just he has ASD I asked what level or how they said they no longer classify it with levels as autism is autism so I don’t know how she got high or whatever
She is sooo full of bullshit! The NHS is in crisis, people are dying because paramedics, a&e, doctors, specialist are stretched to the max! There is no way she saw one consultant and the another one just phoned her out the blue.....the truth is she didn't like the response of the first one so she stamped her feet and complained and demanded to hear from someone else! I don't think they would also say will pop you on the list for march after you 9millionth Disney trip, more than likely were told you will be added to the waiting list but it's likely to be 6-12months or more because we are drowning in referrals!
They only got rid of the classifications in autism/asd/Asperger’s in the last decade in Ireland so a lot of people still refer as high functioning/low functioning, my dads Special Olympic football team all the documents are in the old classification.
That's exactly what I was thinking. Couldn't believe it!
I have only just caught up on the Christmas video. I can’t believe what I have just watched! I feel so sorry for William! The fact he was just lying on the floor whilst the girls played was so sad to see and it was because he basically had nothing. No toys he actually wanted to play with. No Lego, no games console, some baby cuddly toys and a stretch Armstrong toy was his favourite. Poor lad. The way Bella was holding up presents with her hand behind them. I found that quite disturbing! The dinner looked foul and don’t even get me started on them still wearing bibs with Bella aged 8!!! Everything Disney. It’s horrendous! Why is Neil not putting a stop to this crap! Even Dylan asking please can he have a wagon wheel and she said after breakfast!! He’s 18 years old 
I’m in shock!
I’m in shock!Omg, I missed that. She told an 18 year old he had to wait until after breakfast for something.I have only just caught up on the Christmas video. I can’t believe what I have just watched! I feel so sorry for William! The fact he was just lying on the floor whilst the girls played was so sad to see and it was because he basically had nothing. No toys he actually wanted to play with. No Lego, no games console, some baby cuddly toys and a stretch Armstrong toy was his favourite. Poor lad. The way Bella was holding up presents with her hand behind them. I found that quite disturbing! The dinner looked foul and don’t even get me started on them still wearing bibs with Bella aged 8!!! Everything Disney. It’s horrendous! Why is Neil not putting a stop to this crap! Even Dylan asking please can he have a wagon wheel and she said after breakfast!! He’s 18 years old
Rhi, he’s 18, get a frickin grip!
just watched her health update and i cannot believe how entitled she is! the comment about the consultant ‘not having a uterus’ and being a ‘bloke’ has angered me so much, five years of med school and at least seven years of training before being a consultant and she thinks he’s not qualified?!
and the absolute rubbish about one consultant being more senior and contradicting the other, it just wouldn’t happen! a consultant is a consultant, and they work together- unless she’s requested another doctor there’s no reason why a different one would suddenly arrange an appointment for her!
the NHS is literally falling to pieces, as a medical student i’m being encouraged to try and help fix a broken system and people like her are making it so so much worse.
i swear she does this for the attention, if she really was bleeding for four years with heavy ‘postpartum like’ bleeding as she says, she’d be pale, anaemia and weak- definitely in no fit state to be running round disney every week! and i don’t believe for a minute the consultant delayed her appt because of her trip, i doubt there’s a single NHS trust out there that could give you an appointment for an investigative procedure within a month, as usual it’s just Rhi exaggerating and making out like she’s so unwell they wanted to see her ASAP when in reality it’s nothing critical.
she’s probably going to do a brief google search and then decide she knows everything, then complain about the doctor when she next sees them, because of course she knows better then the gynaecologist. and i’m sure she’ll milk her recovery after whatever procedure she has for blog posts, youtube videos and endless complaining on her instagram stories- after all it’s great content for her! the thought of potentially having a hysterectomy is probably making pound signs light up in front of her, it wouldn’t be the first time she’d used the health of her or her family to make money!
last point because i’m rambling, does anyone else find it funny how she always comes away from appointments feeling ‘fobbed off’; the most recent appointment, the one before, not to forget the appointment for Zara’s autism assessment where she complained about the poor jr doctor who was subject to Rhi’s droning and probably considered a career change after that! if she’s really having issues with every healthcare provider she sees then maybe it’s time for her to consider the fact that she’s the problem, not them.
and one last point just for you Rhi, because we all know you read here: if the NHS isn’t good enough for you, stop bleeping off to disney and pay for private healthcare. otherwise, stop complaining just for the sake of it, pull your head out of your arse (you don’t know better than the actual qualified medical professionals, shock, i know) and stop shitting all over the very people who you were clapping for a year ago, unless that was all for content too and you really don’t care, wouldn’t surprise me!
and the absolute rubbish about one consultant being more senior and contradicting the other, it just wouldn’t happen! a consultant is a consultant, and they work together- unless she’s requested another doctor there’s no reason why a different one would suddenly arrange an appointment for her!
the NHS is literally falling to pieces, as a medical student i’m being encouraged to try and help fix a broken system and people like her are making it so so much worse.
i swear she does this for the attention, if she really was bleeding for four years with heavy ‘postpartum like’ bleeding as she says, she’d be pale, anaemia and weak- definitely in no fit state to be running round disney every week! and i don’t believe for a minute the consultant delayed her appt because of her trip, i doubt there’s a single NHS trust out there that could give you an appointment for an investigative procedure within a month, as usual it’s just Rhi exaggerating and making out like she’s so unwell they wanted to see her ASAP when in reality it’s nothing critical.
she’s probably going to do a brief google search and then decide she knows everything, then complain about the doctor when she next sees them, because of course she knows better then the gynaecologist. and i’m sure she’ll milk her recovery after whatever procedure she has for blog posts, youtube videos and endless complaining on her instagram stories- after all it’s great content for her! the thought of potentially having a hysterectomy is probably making pound signs light up in front of her, it wouldn’t be the first time she’d used the health of her or her family to make money!
last point because i’m rambling, does anyone else find it funny how she always comes away from appointments feeling ‘fobbed off’; the most recent appointment, the one before, not to forget the appointment for Zara’s autism assessment where she complained about the poor jr doctor who was subject to Rhi’s droning and probably considered a career change after that! if she’s really having issues with every healthcare provider she sees then maybe it’s time for her to consider the fact that she’s the problem, not them.
and one last point just for you Rhi, because we all know you read here: if the NHS isn’t good enough for you, stop bleeping off to disney and pay for private healthcare. otherwise, stop complaining just for the sake of it, pull your head out of your arse (you don’t know better than the actual qualified medical professionals, shock, i know) and stop shitting all over the very people who you were clapping for a year ago, unless that was all for content too and you really don’t care, wouldn’t surprise me!
she treats those poor children like they’re still babies. dylan is 18 for god’s sakes, no wonder they don’t want to come home from uni! she can’t control them forever and she knows it, and if she carries on like this then it’ll just be her and her endless kallax in her boring, grey house with none of the children left around her!
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Rhi is late 30s 4 pregnancies its common for periods etc to get worse, I know myself after my 4th pregnancy my periods got noticeably heavier.
She is a patronising witch slating the nhs if she is that worried she should go private.can afford multiple Disney holidays and all her tatt she can afford to go private
She is a patronising witch slating the nhs if she is that worried she should go private.can afford multiple Disney holidays and all her tatt she can afford to go private
Yup, there's a good reason Dylan only came home for a few days over their long Christmas vacation. Can you imagine living independently for months and coming back to Mummy telling you when you are allowed to have a biscuit? It'll be interesting to see if Dylan is suddenly very busy during the Easter vacation and unable to make it home. As others have said, Rhi is pushing her children away from her.
She should be so proud that her child is at uni, living independently and, by all accounts, appears to be a really nice, thoughtful, funny and caring person. As a parent, to have a child who has grown up to be a decent adult means you have done your job and your relationship is now different to what it was when your child was a toddler.
Rhi's has an inability to recognise that children need different types of parenting as they get older. She treats them all as if they are all the same age.
Thank you. I ranted earlier as I couldn't believe my ears, agree with you 110%. I found it hilarious after all her "poor unhealthy me" moans in that video about being sick and tired of feeling so drained and lethargic she states she hasn't had breakfast as her tummy was rumbling. What did she have to feed her hunger, something balanced.and nutritious? Nope a silly.little protein bar that she cut into tiny pieces, well that's going to fill you Rhi!
On another point on Dylan I'm glad someone spotted the wagon wheel comment (I wasn't too sure if I had misheard). If I'd been Dylan when she told him he couldn't eat his present, I would have stuck the whole wagon wheel in my mouth.
My stepson has ASD and doesn’t sleep. He never has. My husband thought something was wrong with our daughter because she slept through from 10 weeks old lol
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