Rhi, Mummy of Four #3

[Keikochan]

I can't believe she left toothbrushes from the Florida holiday (which was 3 weeks long right?) in the little plastic zipper bag, in the suit case, in the wardrobe all this time and is going to use them again on this trip
Buy fresh toothbrushes Rhi, they're prob smelly (she smelt something bad when she opened the zipper bag) and moldy. Don't be putting that in your mouth
You'll traumatize the kids into not wanting to brush their teeth!

 

[hmc1203]

What is that photo wall It looks horrible, full off the favourite children of course and no natural pictures all staged as everything has to be perfect .

Now she is moaning she has a cold and she has work to do ,I wish she would stop calling it work ,she chooses to do this and gives herself all this " work" . She needs to get a real job and see how she manages going out 9-5 then coming home to the housework. washing ,cooking etc . She needs to start letting the kids be kids ,loosen the tight grip and routine she has on them. They look so sad behind the eyes ,everything is so staged and has to be perfect for social media she doesn't see what she is doing to them they are going to miss out on so much as they can't relax as they constantly have some sort of camera in their face ready for the next perfect shot

 

[Lilybobtail]

Surely if these forms are so important they should be done first and for however long they take!

 

[Pinklady567]

Why is she bloody moaning when she’s got what she bloody wanted! Ungrateful cow!

 

[havesomeclassReb]

She’s still a bloody idiot then I’ve not watched her for ages. Her and her life are too bloody boring.

 

[Givemethetea]

Please rhi get yourself an assessment you seem to see all your kids are autistic but not yourself

 

[katemess]

The photo wall looks tit. It looks like posters on a teenagers bedroom wall. They look lopsided and crowded.

 

[prinnygrace]

Announcement on her live to celebrate 1 year of her Disney channel. I reckon Paris trip. So when the Florida vlogs finalllllly end it’ll be straight in with months of Paris content.

 

[lc04050607]

My guess is that she’s getting so worked up about these forms because she’s got to think about exaggerating just enough to get the outcome she wants but not so much that she looks like a Munchie.

 

[Pinklady567]

My guess is that she’s getting so worked up about these forms because she’s got to think about exaggerating just enough to get the outcome she wants but not so much that she looks like a Munchie.

She’s blatantly going to fudge it! It’s pretty obvious! She’s such a drama queen about everything

 

[lc04050607]

She’s blatantly going to fudge it! It’s pretty obvious! She’s such a drama queen about everything

With a bit of luck the specialists will already have her marked down as somewhat of a difficult parent and will take her responses with a grain of salt. I do hope they’ll be observing Zara without Rhi present at some stage.

 

[focusdochas]

Rhi may be able to ‘prepare Zara’ but is she allowed to say anything during the assessment.

 

[Cocoapops]

With a bit of luck the specialists will already have her marked down as somewhat of a difficult parent and will take her responses with a grain of salt. I do hope they’ll be observing Zara without Rhi present at some stage.

They should be doing some assessments at school at some point where they observe from a distance, they would also and speak to the class teacher who would probably have to fill in a questionnaire about her giving the school impression of her - in my experience these usually differ a lot between the school version of the child and the home version!

 

[lc04050607]

They should be doing some assessments at school at some point where they observe from a distance, they would also and speak to the class teacher who would probably have to fill in a questionnaire about her giving the school impression of her - in my experience these usually differ a lot between the school version of the child and the home version!

That’s good to know. I’m sure she has mentioned in the past that the school haven’t backed her up with her armchair diagnosing. Hopefully the observations and opinions of the professionals will hold more weight.

 

[Cocoapops]

That’s good to know. I’m sure she has mentioned in the past that the school haven’t backed her up with her armchair diagnosing. Hopefully the observations and opinions of the professionals will hold more weight.

I’m only sharing my experiences in our county in Wales, they tend to follow a similar route with ASD and adhd here. The last observation we had lasted over and afternoon so the pupil was observed in class and playing outside then staff were asked a series of questions about the pupil - including any home information/issues! Wonder what staff will be sharing about her?

 

[focusdochas]

The school is probably seeing a different Zara who doesn’t act up for the camera

 

[lc04050607]

The school is probably seeing a different Zara who doesn’t act up for the camera

I’ve got to say, every time she comes on screen I skip to the next scene. Like I’m sure she’s a fine kid and all that and she’s definitely just a byproduct of her strange upbringing… but I physically cannot watch her. She really does play up to the camera and it goes through me.

 

[RobotLady]

I’ve got to say, every time she comes on screen I skip to the next scene.

Agreed, I fast forward when Z is on the screen now. My children don’t moan, whine or play up like she does. I’m not going to spend my spare time watching someone else’s kid do it. She might think it’s cute and relatable but the whinging is mindless and exhausting and as far from cute as possible.

 

[focusdochas]

I’m the same as soon as I hear a whiny voice (not just Zara) I fast forward

 

[Timeforlove]

They should be doing some assessments at school at some point where they observe from a distance, they would also and speak to the class teacher who would probably have to fill in a questionnaire about her giving the school impression of her - in my experience these usually differ a lot between the school version of the child and the home version!

I fell as though rhi doesn't have to go threw that as she has never mentioned anyone going to see the kids at school. My child had so many different specialist come to see him at nursery and at school once he started and it was not just once but a few times.

Very different to UK assessment part as the school answered those questions and then I had a appointment to answer them rather than a form sent home for me to fill in and I had to explain each answer as to why I answered like that. So I guess that will not even question Rhi answers add up the school and give her basically the answer she wants