Ok so my husband does do that - apart from the checking in (most of the time) although definitely not the last sentence. He will always notice if I’m low or just got something on my mind but I guess the emotional follow up isn’t there?Urgh yuk no, I’d die if my husband started calling me baby that’s not what I’m getting at, not at all. No, what I meant was that you should have an emotional connection with your partner. For example, my husband knows if I’m feeling sad or if something is bothering me and will always ask what’s on my mind or will do things to help me - simple things yknow, like giving me a cuddle, or just holding my hand or calling me to check in and see how I’m getting on etc - he’s aware of how I feel and it’s a part of our relationship and vice versa. I can be completely vulnerable and open with him and he can with me etc
@Suzesnooze thanks for your reply - really useful things to consider there and I love the letter idea