You are 100% right, Mrs Hayward done it recently Asked her insta followers to recommend independent party suppliers and a few days later had all the party stuff gifted to her all these mummy bloggers are begsCall me cynical... but the whole 'planning woody's party'... I just see it as one big fat beg for free party stuff for him. She shows the theme she wants and then independent businesses send their hard work for free hoping for a decent advert in return. I may be wrong but everything she does just feels calculated.