Rebecca Lamb #43 greasy, grubby, house is the pits, no time to parent I’m flashing my tits

[xoxo GG]

Just because a child doesn’t go to nursery it doesn’t hold them back.
Her children are behind because she does bugger all with them.
it’s wonderful that you’re all fantastic parents who’s children go to nursery

Pretty sure tattle.life isn’t for me anymore

Social interactions for children are SO important and the only justification she has for not sending him to nursery is because it’s out of her way. It’s selfish. She doesn’t do anything else with him, she doesn’t take him to see friends children (because she doesn’t have any), he doesn’t go to any playgroups or have any activities or hobbies for himself.

Not sending your child to nursery is absolutely fine if you actively make an effort to build those skills before they go to school. But the fact is Rebecca doesn’t, by the time school rolls around for Woody he may find it difficult to interact with other children, because his mother has held him back.

Critiquing Rebecca and how she parents isn’t automatically attacking how others decide to parent. There’s multiple elements to it.

 

[Sp20191]

Social interactions for children are SO important and the only justification she has for not sending him to nursery is because it’s out of her way. It’s selfish. She doesn’t do anything else with him, she doesn’t take him to see friends children (because she doesn’t have any), he doesn’t go to any playgroups or have any activities or hobbies for himself.

Not sending your child to nursery is absolutely fine if you actively make an effort to build those skills before they go to school. But the fact is Rebecca doesn’t, by the time school rolls around for Woody he may find it difficult to interact with other children, because his mother has held him back.

Critiquing Rebecca and how she parents isn’t automatically attacking how others decide to parent. There’s multiple elements to it.

There’s literally no real
Justification for her tho...she just said she ‘works’ from home she has loads more time to be able to travel to take him to nursery she’s just lazy!

 

[Coops2020]

Okay so they bought a house and didn’t take their children’s education into consideration before buying it? So Woody won’t be going to nursery because there isn’t one close. Nope sorry, that’s not a good enough excuse.

this is so true, it’s not about convenience it’s about what’s best for the child. Also what will she do when woody is at school?!! What will she do all day - post photos of her egg lunches

 

[xoxo GG]

There’s literally no real
Justification for her tho...she just said she ‘works’ from home she has loads more time to be able to travel to take him to nursery she’s just lazy!

I’m not saying in my opinion it justifies it, but people are more likely to see that the nursery is further away and go ‘oh understandable’ than just her stating that she works at home so she doesn’t have to send him.

 

[Cooper123]

Hang on, nursery chat aside, she’s trying to say she works from home?? Since when was flashing your tits and fat arse in front of the mirror working from home? Also if Steve works from home then why is he never there? The lies this dick talks are embarrassing, nothing worse than a liar. Woody would benefit greatly from something outside of that house to meet other kids and socialise, but she won’t take him because that would eat into her dressing up and posing time. the girl is a bleeping moron

 

[VanillaIce]

It’s just totally unnecessary, she is conditioning those kids to have a sweet tooth and chocolate addiction the same as herself. Idiotic woman

She’s so stupid. My youngest is 4 and she had a carton of chocolate milk today and the last time before that was probably in feb at a mcds

People saying she’s neglectful for not sending woody to nursery are spot on because the truth is she doesn’t do anything with him. No play group, no days out, no home learning, barely any playtime just long walks/photo shoots in over sized clothing. If someone reading this feels attacked by this then maybe they need to question the way they are raising their children too. You don’t need to send them to an expensive nursery - most children are entitled to some form of funding anyway. You don’t need to spend a fortune on playgroups and days out. But you do need to make sure your kids are well socialised and ready to learn when it comes to time to go to reception. This is pretty basic parenting.

 

[Dandylion1]

Woody is a September baby so he will be 5 before he's in full-time education. He's really gonna struggle. Just not like he's socialised now. she takes him no where at all.

my son is a week older than woody and won't go to nursery he's 4 cause of how the funding works out and We can't afford it at the moment. But we normally go to 3 play groups a weeks and meet our friends one morning at the park.

that poor boy doesn't see anyone outside her and beaver for weeks at a time. She's so selfish it's unreal.

So woody won’t be starting school next year then it will be the year after?

 

[Jerseymiss]

So woody won’t be starting school next year then it will be the year after?

Yeah September 2022.

 

[Dandylion1]

Yeah September 2022.

Can’t imagine that he’s going to be stuck at home for another 2 years! Mine is 4 2 months before woody so he starts school next year just after his 4th birthday

 

[Coops2020]

Can’t imagine that he’s going to be stuck at home for another 2 years! Mine is 4 2 months before woody so he starts school next year just after his 4th birthday

Woody isn’t four until next September so I don’t think he will be going as I’m sure technically he will be still 3 when school starts

 

[Cooper123]

She needs him at home for content. She’s not thinking about his best interests at all. If she did things with him fair enough but she doesn’t. She spends most of her time in front of her camera posing

 

[Charl28]

But of course Alfie got to attend nursery... whether they live further away or not now woody should be going it’s so unfair... look at how alfies speech is behind and he went to nursery so god knows how far behind woody will be

 

[Mum24]

She will be preggers by then and when she's pregnant/had the baby she'll send him to nursery cos itl be too stressful, I've no doubt about it.
Let's all be honest, she's said herself the nursery is too far so he won't go til a couple of months before reception, purposefully holding him bacj at home because 1. She is selfish 2. Because she cba to drive to nursery... What's the difference in dropping Alfie off then woody straight after.. You're already out?! Makes no sense to me lol... Don't mean this in a nasty way but I can't wait for my little one to start in September.. There's only so many ways I can keep her busy at home...

 

[virgofalls]

I don’t know why she likes giving them so much sugar tbh

Do you think it's something she's been brought up to do like "food is love"?

My Grandma was like this when we were little. She would give us endless treats, like a chocolate bar as soon as we walked in the door . Always wanted to feed us up with the tastiest thing she could think of.

 

[Jerseymiss]

Can’t imagine that he’s going to be stuck at home for another 2 years! Mine is 4 2 months before woody so he starts school next year just after his 4th birthday

Yeah he will miss the 31st August cut off. My son is 2nd September so missed it also and doesn't start reception till September 2022

 

[Dandylion1]

Woody isn’t four until next September so I don’t think he will be going as I’m sure technically he will be still 3 when school starts

So sad that he is stuck at
Home for another 2 years!

 

[virgofalls]

I can’t believe she’s not sending Woody to nursery because she doesn’t feel the need to with them both working from home! I was dreading my youngest starting last year but of course I sent him and it’s helped him loads with his development and confidence, he’s made some new friends that will be going to his primary this September as well. I feel really sorry for Woody. No interaction with children apart from Alfie

Just goes to show that she doesn't actually do much work from home then if she can entertain and keep a toddler safe all day whilst also grafting .

My husband and I have been WFH for the last 13 weeks and it's been hellish! Honestly, it's been extremely difficult on us all trying to be full time parents and full time workers with absolutely zero external help.

 

[Jerseymiss]

So sad that he is stuck at
Home for another 2 years!

Yeah it's crazy. Poor little boy.

 

[Chavlove]

Does Alfie’s school not have a nursery? If so woody would be able to go to school nursery in January with 30 free hours? Or at least that’s how it would be in Scotland.

 

[Jossstickjunky]

She appears to see nursery as childcare rather than a place of learning and socialising with children of his own age. That's why she justifies saying that they work from home so he doesn't need it.
Friendship groups all start from nursery and by the time he starts school, he will have no friends of his own. He definitely needs to learn social skills and manners. Will he still be climbing all over the tables at school?