At one point it was though. What person in their early 20’s owns a house and cars without parents help or other help? No friends and hardly seeing her family is her own fault. Steve is a twit I’ve said this, but she’s ultimately the one who’s now ruining her happiness. Yes Steve could have prevented pregnancy, but so could Rebecca, she didn’t though because idiots like her think kids keep a man. I’m sorry but I just can’t feel sorry for someone who brings most of it on themselves. The remarks from Steve no she doesn’t and he shouldn’t be so horrible, but the rest is entirely her own doing.
Honestly if life terrifies her being without Steve, then she really needs to seek help about that. As I’ve said as mother you do anything for your kids and I’d be dammed if I allowed my son to grow up thinking that’s how you treat a woman, or anyone for that matter. She needs to suck it up, grow the hell up and stop living in cuckoo land.