It's a tricky one. I do think it's wrong to tar someone who is attracted to a 16 year old with the same brush as someone like Ian Watkins. However, even if a teenager dresses and acts older, and 'consensually' has sex with an adult it's still a form of abuse. An abuse of power at the very least.There is a massive difference to those who deliberately abuse young children, and those who are considered predators for having ‘relations’ with under age teenagers consensually. I am by no means excusing it, but there are some 13 year olds that look like 20 year olds and lie about their age.
It’s a very complex subject and obviously a very emotive one. I am not excusing SA in any way shape or form, just trying to see the bigger picture (if there is one)