Real Life Crime and Murder #17

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Echoes of the German cannibal case. Men who pay to have their own genitals cut off and film it to sell to other weirdos who get off on it.The human psyche is a very strange thing.
I'm always amazed there're enough of these kinds of people to form a 'community' and that they all manage to find each other.
Eta: And why is it always men? What is it about the male psyche in particular?
I wince every time this band of freaks pop up in the news.

Castration by clamping 🤮

 
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American crime but it’s broken my heart so I had to share.

32 year old bagel bakery owner is shot randomly in New Orleans over Christmas/NY break while walking with his husband.

I’ve visited NOLA a few times and while it’s not the safest place, this is still utterly shocking and senseless. Especially as they were in a very touristy area.


RIP Jacob. The world is a worse place without you in it. 💔 🥯
 
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What a beautiful little boy Alfie was … R.I.P little one.
I hope their sentences are horrific every day for them.
 
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Echoes of the German cannibal case. Men who pay to have their own genitals cut off and film it to sell to other weirdos who get off on it.The human psyche is a very strange thing.
I'm always amazed there're enough of these kinds of people to form a 'community' and that they all manage to find each other.
Eta: And why is it always men? What is it about the male psyche in particular?
FFS. Never again ordering a smoothie! 😳

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I'm always amazed there're enough of these kinds of people to form a 'community' and that they all manage to find each other.
Eta: And why is it always men? What is it about the male psyche in particular?
I think the numbers of paraphilic men are higher than most people can ever imagine. And, thanks to the internet, they always manage to find each other.

I also think the internet (specifically porn) plays a role in creating fetishises in men. I think men just have a natural propensity to develop paraphilias. Why? Well, testosterone is one hell of a drug…
 
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I think the numbers of paraphilic men are higher than most people can ever imagine. And, thanks to the internet, they always manage to find each other.

I also think the internet (specifically porn) plays a role in creating fetishises in men. I think men just have a natural propensity to develop paraphilias. Why? Well, testosterone is one hell of a drug…
This is so baffling though.
Like, once he's been de-knobbed he can exactly get off on the memory can he? It's strictly a once off - what if it wasn't as good as he anticipated?
 
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This is so baffling though.
Like, once he's been de-knobbed he can exactly get off on the memory can he? It's strictly a once off - what if it wasn't as good as he anticipated?
“What if it wasn’t as good as he anticipated?”

Well, quite!

This actually has strong links with men who experience gender dysphoria and decide to transition in later life, often after marrying and having kids.

It’s a fetish for seeing oneself as a woman, and making other people do the same. It so often starts as cross-dressing but builds and builds - to wearing women’s clothing full time, then hormones, then surgery. These men are obsessed with the idea of adopting the female role sexually, of experiencing “female orgasms” (even when they still have male equipment, and are just taking female hormones).

The small percentage that have genital surgery (some merely remove their testicles, some opt for a full “neovagina”) imagine that their sex lives are going to be transformed by finally having the genitals they dreamed about. Lots talk about how erotic the post-op experience will be - having to use medical dilators to keep the surgical vagina from healing shut. They are appalled to find that it’s painful and miserable instead.

Eunuch fetishists are trying to have it legitimised as a valid gender identity under the trans umbrella.


And for more on that, come to the gender discussion thread!
 
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I don’t think it is a small minority at all. I believe peadophilla is progressive from my experience of working with them. Starts off watching soft porn, then hard porn, then rape porn, then teenage porn, then child porn. Then they go from just watching it, to collecting it, it becomes an obsession, they are speaking to peadophiles daily on the internet, isolating themselves from normal people. It all starts becoming very ‘normal’, they are speaking to other men that are abusing children, then watching content that the man has made with this child. They are offered this child. Or their sister has a child around the same age. They start getting desires around this child. That child is now at risk. When at the start of them initially watching porn, they were not attracted to children. Never mind the ones that have been attracted to children from the offset. Trust me now I do not trust any man around my children. I think having my mindset is the best way of stopping your child being abused. I never thought like this before working with them. It really opened my eyes. In fact I think it’s a small minority of them that aren’t at risk of abusing a child. Not the other way round. They are already abusing a child by viewing the indecent images.
We moved to a really small village years ago and by the time we left we discovered that out of our employees and friends in this tiny place, 3 of them were registered sex offenders. I can honestly say I would never trust any male, no matter what relation, 100%z One of the guys was a bit odd so it wasn’t a huge surprise but the other two I would have never guessed in a million Years. One of them was kind of outed, he dealt with it head on and tried to be open and honest about what had happened, his time in jail and how he got to that place I his life that he was viewing such stuff. Not admirable I know, but quite brave because there is lots of things I would flinch to talk about from my past and not nearly as bad. As I understand it He had a very close family member arrested for possessing images etc. and as he was a young teen at the time was curious about what they would have been and essentially fell down a rabbit hole of porn and he eventually needed harder images and went down the ladder of depravity until he himself was later convicted of the same or similar crimes as his family member. To this day I still do t know what to make of it al. All 3 were very close acquaintances/colleagues (I would say friends but we were really in each others live so much by circumstance more than anything and probably wouldn’t have been friends otherwise) so finding all these things out after the knowing them was really hard to know what to do for the best. Does everyone deserve a second chance? If it was my child affected by these crimes could I be so forgiving? And should I be forgiving on behalf of the abused? Blah blah so many questions it’s unreal. All this is to say, never underestimate what goes on behind closed doors and computers! Really scary
 
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Only just discovered this Irish podcast with Nicola Talent so I'm probably way behind. She did the podcast called The Witness as well if people haven't heard of it, it's really good. This one covers all kinds of true crime, mostly Irish but some not
 
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I imagine we would be thoroughly disgusted (and in some cases, possibly shocked) if we were to take a look at the computers of a lot of men known to us. 🙁
 
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Just watched the first episode of Murder in the 21st on Crime + Investigation. The blurb for the program is
‘Exploring some of this century's most notorious homicide investigations through a deep dive of each victim's digital footprint; social media posts, texts, emails and more are analysed to uncover motive, means and opportunity’
My type of program!
 
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Just watched the first episode of Murder in the 21st on Crime + Investigation. The blurb for the program is
‘Exploring some of this century's most notorious homicide investigations through a deep dive of each victim's digital footprint; social media posts, texts, emails and more are analysed to uncover motive, means and opportunity’
My type of program!
Started in the week didn’t it?always watching that channel.

I loved witness to murder: Digital evidence,brilliant how tracking of phone etc other things as well.
 
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Started in the week didn’t it?always watching that channel.

I loved witness to murder: Digital evidence,brilliant how tracking of phone etc other things as well.
Yeah - started Wednesday I think.
I will have a look at Witness to Murder: Digital Evidence!
 
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Just watched the first episode of Murder in the 21st on Crime + Investigation. The blurb for the program is
‘Exploring some of this century's most notorious homicide investigations through a deep dive of each victim's digital footprint; social media posts, texts, emails and more are analysed to uncover motive, means and opportunity’
My type of program!
Can't wait for everyone's thoughts on the third episode (if they play them in the US order) - the Jenelle Porter case. I've been weirdly obsessed with it since I first saw it on 48 Hours years ago. 🤭
 
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