PTWM #219 They’re not in Barbados

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Also, minor issue, I’m just a bitter divorcee; but everyone I know has necklaces with their kids’ names / initials on them. Is it not a bit weird to have a massive R&J thing around your neck at 40odd?
She needs to stake her claim on him, just in case he falls (silky) pen first into someone else in a bush. Like letting your teenage boyfriend give you a love bite. I don't think she's very secure in her marriage, despite the fact she keeps claiming that they love each other the hardest.
 
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She needs to stake her claim on him, just in case he falls (silky) pen first into someone else in a bush. Like letting your teenage boyfriend give you a love bite. I don't think she's very secure in her marriage, despite the fact she keeps claiming that they love each other the hardest.
She says they love each other the hardest (🤮), but they don't actually seem to like each other that much. How often does she say they've had a row and haven't talked for days? That's not normal behaviour in a healthy relationship, I know everybody has disagreements sometime, but to be falling out so regularly really doesn't support the picture she tries to paint of the happiest marriage ever. Both her and Joyce will often talk about separating, and him moving out to a one bedroom flat etc.

I think he's miserable, he hates having so many kids and would rather have left his boys with their mum had gross not pushed for the "perfect patchwork family", and he definitely didn't want to have another with her, but again she pushed him into it. I bet he regrets his early knee-tremblers in the bushes with her, and he's only still around because he likes the money for doing nothing and the attention he gets from the rabid huns.
 
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Sorry but it’s like an episode of Shameless. Why does she think it’s a flex that A - this is happening at all and B - sharing it is bleeping hilarious.

Where’s the role models in the kids lives?
Very sad tbh.
 
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She says they love each other the hardest (🤮), but they don't actually seem to like each other that much. How often does she say they've had a row and haven't talked for days? That's not normal behaviour in a healthy relationship, I know everybody has disagreements sometime, but to be falling out so regularly really doesn't support the picture she tries to paint of the happiest marriage ever. Both her and Joyce will often talk about separating, and him moving out to a one bedroom flat etc.

I think he's miserable, he hates having so many kids and would rather have left his boys with their mum had gross not pushed for the "perfect patchwork family", and he definitely didn't want to have another with her, but again she pushed him into it. I bet he regrets his early knee-tremblers in the bushes with her, and he's only still around because he likes the money for doing nothing and the attention he gets from the rabid huns.
Their stories are increasingly cringe, particularly their ads. She mocks him and rolls her eyes, he looks like he's simmering rage the whole time, and the looks they give each other and the camera about each other.
 
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It’s like an episode of Kevin and Perry… or Shameless. Tell you what though, it makes me feel happy about my parenting!!
 
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Sorry but it’s like an episode of Shameless. Why does she think it’s a flex that A - this is happening at all and B - sharing it is bleeping hilarious.

Where’s the role models in the kids lives?
Very sad tbh.
Ha that’s what I just said - definitely like Shameless! Do they not know how most of us parent and how well behaved most kids are? My teens/young adults would be absolutely shocked by the behaviour of her kids. The caption says ‘what it’s like in a house full of teens’ - no Rachel, I have a house of teens and they do not and have never behaved like that.
 
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Ha that’s what I just said - definitely like Shameless! Do they not know how most of us parent and how well behaved most kids are? My teens/young adults would be absolutely shocked by the behaviour of her kids. The caption says ‘what it’s like in a house full of teens’ - no Rachel, I have a house of teens and they do not and have never behaved like that.
Yeah my teenager would be absolutely horrified, and her kids would be the ones mine would avoid like the plague.

She acts like every single teenager is taking drugs, getting drunk, having sex, running absolutely feral, and that it's so relatable to her huns. The reality is, this is not normal teen behaviour at all.

I've said it before, you'd think that with her having had such difficult, traumatic teenage years (allegedly), that she'd want better for her kids and step kids. But I guess if they were all at home studying for their exams instead of put drinking and vaping, she'd have nothing to complain about online 🫠
 
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There isn't a world my twelve year old child's location is unknown to me. Not in this lifetime.

My nine year old is still in a high backed booster and we have a particularly safe car. Id never let her sit in the front unless it was an absolute necessity (so far we havent had that happen) and I absolutely would not allow her to use the seat belt alone.

My friends husband was recently in a crash (not his fault someone hit him head on) and he had two broken legs, a broken neck and a pretty nasty bruise on his head. If she was in an accident that little boy has almost no protection.
 
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There isn't a world my twelve year old child's location is unknown to me. Not in this lifetime.

My nine year old is still in a high backed booster and we have a particularly safe car. Id never let her sit in the front unless it was an absolute necessity (so far we havent had that happen) and I absolutely would not allow her to use the seat belt alone.

My friends husband was recently in a crash (not his fault someone hit him head on) and he had two broken legs, a broken neck and a pretty nasty bruise on his head. If she was in an accident that little boy has almost no protection.
I mean, mine are adults and there’s not a world where I don’t know their location 🫣
 
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The police "thought he was someone else". 🤣
why is she acting like Josh's kid getting arrested is a flex , wonder how that looks for pc career break, a serving policeman's child being arrested,his step daughter being steaming underage,his youngest son being ferried about in a front seat when his wife is eyeing up herself in the camera not paying attention and driving with no due care or attention, ,the list of illegal things they get up to is unreal,how can he go back to his job and arrest people etc, he can't even get his own family to abide by the law
 
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Sorry but what is she thinking with the "new" creased bits of rag they are now selling. Surely they are taking the piss and having some kind of a laugh to see how stupid the sheep are by how much utter rit they will buy?
 
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🤔 I haven't watched the stories, so I may be missing some context, but I'm a little confused by the suggestion that the arresting officer needed to be trauma-informed for Isaac.

Isaac has lived with Rach and Josh since he was around 2 or 3 years old. As far as I'm aware, he has had no contact with his birth mother since he was about 4 or 5 and is unlikely to have any memory of living with her.

Given that he's spent the vast majority of his life being raised by what are often described as loving and supportive parents (🤣) where is this significant trauma said to have come from?
 
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Genuinely have no clue what ‘trauma informed’ means? Another weird buzz word that the insta brigade come out with? Could someone explain please. Is it along the lines of - disregulate (having a tantrum) - school refuser (skiving) etc etc
 
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The audacity of her to be advertising tutoring when she has such disrespect for education 🤦🏼‍♀️

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Genuinely have no clue what ‘trauma informed’ means? Another weird buzz word that the insta brigade come out with? Could someone explain please. Is it along the lines of - disregulate (having a tantrum) - school refuser (skiving) etc etc
Trauma informed practice recognises the significant impact that Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACES) have on a child's development and how children with two or more ACES are at significant risk of not meeting ther potential, being pulled into county lines, vulnerable to abuse and exploitation and how just having one adult who is a protective factor who they can trust and rely on can counteract some of this damage. * thats the basics, its a lot more complex and there is years of research involved. Many children with multiple ACEs present similar to those with ADHD, Autism and other mental health diagnoses. Racket uses it as an excuse and blames everyone else. If she was truly an advocate of Trauma informed practice she would not be plastering any of her kids across the net
 
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