Me too! I can’t even begin to fathom why she doesn’t want more for her children and why she instead wants them to do nothing with their lives. Everything I do is about breaking that cycle and giving my children the childhood and life I couldn’t have. I really don’t understand her at all and it makes me sad and angry in equal measures!I had a traumatic childhood. My children will never have my life . They will never know what I went through. I’m breaking the chain not encouraging it to continue.