this is exactly what I kept thinking when she first mentioned suddenly moving at the beginning of vlogmas (or whatever weird titles she kept giving it). sure, long distance relationships are possible and in my own family my dad got stationed in several places that my mom decided not to bring us kids to so the family was split for periods of time - but just up and moving because you went on a vacation and liked how you felt without responsibilities? and deciding to uproot your whole life without having any processing time? I feel so sorry for Dan and for the family and friends that are being drug through this.Dan has been so supportive. Don't get me wrong, he comes across as a very gentle and patient guy, but I can only imagine the strains that's put on their marriage. And now she's randomly picked up and moved to Tasmania? And he hasn't come along? It seems she is only thinking of herself and not the impact her actions has on him.
ALSO, this was just a personal vent but in her video explaining vlogmas and how each day was going to be a different category, I was getting SO frustrated by the third time she decided to go through her explanation. once for herself, then another more solidly for the audience, then ANOTHER once that dude got in the car, and I vaguely remember a fourth retelling?? like alex I get you're excited but please...just stop.