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My app is telling me 5weeks and a day. 😂 I've the same feeling which has been dragging on for over 2 weeks now. My boobs are in agony and grew over night so that's good too I guess (but it's completely normal to feel nothing too) it's ll. Guessing game. Congratulations
Congrats to you too! X
 
Thanks so much ❤❤ it’s hard just having google and not being able to tell friends/mum yet.
Congrats!!! Super normal, I actually took paracetamol mine were that bad. And I thought it was just my period coming anyway 🤷‍♀️

Also if you wanna tell friends or your mum then do it! We told family and a few close friends way before 12 weeks, i FaceTimed my mum at 7am on a Saturday to tell her 😂 the first trimester can be lonely and a bit scary, so if you need support from others don’t hesitate xx
 
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Congrats!!! Super normal, I actually took paracetamol mine were that bad. And I thought it was just my period coming anyway 🤷‍♀️

Also if you wanna tell friends or your mum then do it! We told family and a few close friends way before 12 weeks, i FaceTimed my mum at 7am on a Saturday to tell her 😂 the first trimester can be lonely and a bit scary, so if you need support from others don’t hesitate xx
Thanks ❤ yes I’m wondering if I’ll tell her sooner, it’s just then where do you stop - telling all siblings and I know she’ll be desperate to tell her sisters etc. Tell one close friend and then want to tell them all! First baby in our family so it’ll be a massive deal. Not helped that my brother has been struggling to conceive for a couple of years and it happened to us instantly 😵💫 so I’ll see. Very grateful for this thread!
 
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Thanks ❤ yes I’m wondering if I’ll tell her sooner, it’s just then where do you stop - telling all siblings and I know she’ll be desperate to tell her sisters etc. Tell one close friend and then want to tell them all! First baby in our family so it’ll be a massive deal. Not helped that my brother has been struggling to conceive for a couple of years and it happened to us instantly 😵💫 so I’ll see. Very grateful for this thread!
Tread a little carefully with this. We’ve just told my husband’s brother about us and he acted horrifically, and still isn’t talking to us. He and his wife have been ttc for 8 years and they’re both now very bitter about any good baby news. Maybe get some others out of the way first, and maybe enlist them to help.
 
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Tread a little carefully with this. We’ve just told my husband’s brother about us and he acted horrifically, and still isn’t talking to us. He and his wife have been ttc for 8 years and they’re both now very bitter about any good baby news. Maybe get some others out of the way first, and maybe enlist them to help.
Sorry to hear that 😞 yes, definitely a delicate situation
 
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Thanks so much ❤❤ it’s hard just having google and not being able to tell friends/mum yet.
I think there’s such a huge stigma about not telling people until the 12 week mark. I done a test just after 4 weeks and the first person I wanted to tell was my mam, even before my partner.. I waited 3 days for gp confirmation and was straight to my mam’s.. tell whoever you like, you need support now more than ever
 
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Pregnancy is such a wild ride, isn't it? Got my 20 week scan next week and I'm back to panicking and worrying 🙈 I've probably felt the baby move three-four times in the past three weeks - twice was flutters and once was more like proper kicks but I keep thinking I should be feeling them more? I keep telling myself that it's just the position they are in but I'm also barely showing and thought I would have "popped" by now. I'm anxious for next week but also can't wait to see if everything is okay 🤞
 
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Pregnancy is such a wild ride, isn't it? Got my 20 week scan next week and I'm back to panicking and worrying 🙈 I've probably felt the baby move three-four times in the past three weeks - twice was flutters and once was more like proper kicks but I keep thinking I should be feeling them more? I keep telling myself that it's just the position they are in but I'm also barely showing and thought I would have "popped" by now. I'm anxious for next week but also can't wait to see if everything is okay 🤞
All completely normal with your first, the flutters will get more frequent and you’ll get more kicks soon. I didn’t pop until about 26 weeks with my first. Normal to be nervous for the 20 week scan but try to enjoy it when you’re there, it’s incredible the detail you can see. xx
 
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Even though we’ve since lost the pregnancy I don’t regret telling a few people I was pregnant before 12 weeks. I told my mum and a couple of sister-figured who have children. It was helpful to not feel so alone navigating the sickness, the changes, the worries
 
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Pregnancy is such a wild ride, isn't it? Got my 20 week scan next week and I'm back to panicking and worrying 🙈 I've probably felt the baby move three-four times in the past three weeks - twice was flutters and once was more like proper kicks but I keep thinking I should be feeling them more? I keep telling myself that it's just the position they are in but I'm also barely showing and thought I would have "popped" by now. I'm anxious for next week but also can't wait to see if everything is okay 🤞
i feel like I wrote this! Feeling the same as you… I’m 18 weeks and have felt a few flutters but still haven’t popped. Starting to get really in my head about it. Definitely a wild ride!!
 
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i feel like I wrote this! Feeling the same as you… I’m 18 weeks and have felt a few flutters but still haven’t popped. Starting to get really in my head about it. Definitely a wild ride!!
I "popped" or should I say expanded slowly between 21-22 weeks, then by 23 weeks I feel huge and have got much bigger in the space of the week! I'm amazed at how quickly it happened!
 
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I'm now 26 weeks and can no longer hold my belly in at all like i could up until 20 weeks :ROFLMAO:
 
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I’m very early (almost 5 weeks) and got what feels like quite mild period pains/cramps. Feeling paranoid and hate that you just have to wait around and see whether it’s anything. So difficult 😩😩
Mine were so bad at five weeks with this pregnancy that I was sure something was wrong. Happily at 22 weeks now. Hopefully all is well and baby is just getting nice and secure.
 
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Anyone had steroid injections? Think I’m about to get one not usually afraid of injections but quite nervous for this!
 
I’m very early (almost 5 weeks) and got what feels like quite mild period pains/cramps. Feeling paranoid and hate that you just have to wait around and see whether it’s anything. So difficult 😩😩
I’m almost 5 weeks too! Random cramps here too, it’s normal!
 
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I’m almost 5 weeks too! Random cramps here too, it’s normal!
Thanks for all the reassurance. It’s on and off but quite bad when i wake up and much better when I take paracetamol. Have you had any contact with midwife service yet? I filled in a form for mine and am waiting. It feels very weird just to have to wait around for anyone to officially confirm I’m pregnant 🤯
 
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Thanks for all the reassurance. It’s on and off but quite bad when i wake up and much better when I take paracetamol. Have you had any contact with midwife service yet? I filled in a form for mine and am waiting. It feels very weird just to have to wait around for anyone to officially confirm I’m pregnant 🤯
Every area is different. With mine, you fill in the online form at around 5/6 weeks and then you dont hear anything until around 9/10 weeks.
The wont confirm anything or do a test or anything like that.
They basically take your word for it 😂
 
Every area is different. With mine, you fill in the online form at around 5/6 weeks and then you dont hear anything until around 9/10 weeks.
The wont confirm anything or do a test or anything like that.
They basically take your word for it 😂
I’m such an impatient person, I want 100 scans and tests NOW 😂😂
 
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