Thank you so much! And also to everyone else giving helpful messages. I’m still freaking out a lot but trying to just breathe and focus on the positives. Just seen the consultants and they are saying there’s a possibility we will need to deliver tomorrow depending on how things progress, they’re disagreeing with the sonographer (ffs bloody sonographers… ) and saying he seems a good size for his gestation. They are just worried about not intervening soon enough before something goes wrong because of the placenta. We’ll be 27w4d tomorrow. They’ve given me the steroid shot for his lungs in case we deliver tomorrow. But they’re going to monitor me and the baby and decide when is best so fingers crossed it won’t be as quickly as tomorrow. But it looks like he will be premature and in NICU for a while. I was crying surrounded by a roomful of doctors. They assured me the rate of survival is very good at this stage though which is my main worry. Also if I need extra care I can stay in the hospital and see him when I want which is a good thing. Silver linings.
I’m just in shock and completely unprepared. I thought my pregnancy was relatively uneventful and all of a sudden I’m at DAU for high blood pressure and then I’m here on the labour ward being told this.
Yes they’ve mentioned they might do this. They’ve given me the steroid shot in case it’s tomorrow. Thank you so much.
I honestly don’t know what I’d do without this thread at the minute. iRL friends haven’t been through the same thing/don’t really know what to say despite being lovely if you know what I mean.
It's honestly the scariest thing I've ever been through so I can completely understand how you feel! Please don't be embarrassed about crying, I must have cried in front of every single person working there by the end lol. When I was admitted I was hyperventilating so badly I couldn't even talk Like you I'd had a completely uneventful pregnancy and it took me by complete surprise, in the day I was at work as normal and in the night I was suddenly hospitalised being told I was really sick and might have to deliver the next day. You can't possibly imagine until you've been through it yourself so it's so lovely to have this thread to find similar mama's, the same with NICU, the NICU mama's here are angels and will hold you up the whole way whenever you need them I really hope you manage to stabilise and buy some more time for bub to stay as is. I'm thinking of you both and here if you need me xxx