Just come back from my 16 week appointment, this pregnancy is going so fast already!!
I’ve got my folder already it reminded me of book bags from school haha xYou usually get it at your 12 week scanIt's usually a folder
As I had previous miscarriages I got obsessed and was doing cheapy ones.multiple times daiky, I did the clear blue week ones every week until they reached 3+ then stopped when I had a private scan at 7 weeks xxHow long did people continue to take pregnancy tests when they got their BFP?. I’m nearly 6 weeks and I’ve taken another one today. The line is darker too which is a good sign. It gives comfort
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Sometimes I still do the odd one, just becauseHow long did people continue to take pregnancy tests when they got their BFP?. I’m nearly 6 weeks and I’ve taken another one today. The line is darker too which is a good sign. It gives comfort
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its just the reassurance isn’t it. Think I’m going to book an early private scan too to check all’s going well.As I had previous miscarriages I got obsessed and was doing cheapy ones.multiple times daiky, I did the clear blue week ones every week until they reached 3+ then stopped when I had a private scan at 7 weeks xx
I didn't. Only ever taken the one test hahaHow long did people continue to take pregnancy tests when they got their BFP?. I’m nearly 6 weeks and I’ve taken another one today. The line is darker too which is a good sign. It gives comfort
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Yeah made me feel better as I could see the lines getting darker, I would recommend having an early scan it made me feel so much better xxits just the reassurance isn’t it. Think I’m going to book an early private scan too to check all’s going well.
Not wanting to focus on the horrible side but don’t forget that your body still produces pregnancy hormones for a while even if you’ve miscarried. I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks and was still testing positive for a week afterwards.How long did people continue to take pregnancy tests when they got their BFP?. I’m nearly 6 weeks and I’ve taken another one today. The line is darker too which is a good sign. It gives comfort
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I’ve been thinking about getting some cheapies, just because it feels like so long between when we found out and our private scan! My partner keeps saying “it’s because you have to give it time for the baby to start growing” which I know but I just worry about going to the scan and something bad having happened!How long did people continue to take pregnancy tests when they got their BFP?. I’m nearly 6 weeks and I’ve taken another one today. The line is darker too which is a good sign. It gives comfort
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You’re absolutely rightNot wanting to focus on the horrible side but don’t forget that your body still produces pregnancy hormones for a while even if you’ve miscarried. I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks and was still testing positive for a week afterwards.
I’d save your money and buy something nice for the baby later on x
I would like to tell my manager however I know she will then start to mither me about doing things quicker etc and then she will be putting my job for maternity cover. She is already starting to drive me mad recently because I don’t know if I said this before but some meetings are early and then some are late and I can’t look at my laptop for that long 8 hours is more than enough. But I am glad you were able to tell your manager I am just not ready to say. Do you feel any better after the fizzy drink?Ah I get you. It’s hard when you don’t want people to know too early isn’t it. Maybe see how you get on but if you can’t hold out any longer just tell your direct manager and ask them to keep it a secret until you’re comfortable telling more people. I have a girl in my team who’s 6 months pregnant and she still hasn’t told anyone else at work except me! Although she won’t be handing her job over when she goes so it is a bit different.
My manager was lovely about it, I’ve known him a long time so I just called him and told him. He was very understanding when I took sick leave last week, when I tried to log on the second day he was the one who told me to log off because staring at a screen all day wasn’t going to make me feel any better! His wife is pregnant too so I think that helps.
Oh that’s good to know, thank you!
It’s so tough isn’t it. First the worry of getting pregnant and then the worry of the first 12 weeks and then onto the next worry. I wished I was cool and casual.I’ve been thinking about getting some cheapies, just because it feels like so long between when we found out and our private scan! My partner keeps saying “it’s because you have to give it time for the baby to start growing” which I know but I just worry about going to the scan and something bad having happened!
Ah yeah I can see why you want to hold on for longer then! That’s annoying.I would like to tell my manager however I know she will then start to mither me about doing things quicker etc and then she will be putting my job for maternity cover. She is already starting to drive me mad recently because I don’t know if I said this before but some meetings are early and then some are late and I can’t look at my laptop for that long 8 hours is more than enough. But I am glad you were able to tell your manager I am just not ready to say. Do you feel any better after the fizzy drink?
@Kitt i am glad it went well and aww that is cute I am really interested as our dates are so close as well! I am sorry about your partners mum families are a strange thing sometimes. Do you feel better now? Xx
Yep same! I said to my manager this week that I can’t wait to get to 12 weeks so I can chill out. He was like unfortunately you probably won’t chill out now for the next 18 years at leastmots so tough isn’t it. First the worry of getting pregnant and then to worry of the first 12 weeks and then onto the next worry. I wished I was cool and casual.![]()
A test won't show if anything has happenedI’ve been thinking about getting some cheapies, just because it feels like so long between when we found out and our private scan! My partner keeps saying “it’s because you have to give it time for the baby to start growing” which I know but I just worry about going to the scan and something bad having happened!
Yes, I’ve had a couple of miscarriages (now pregnant again) and that’s what happened to my first. Happy to answer any questionsHi everyone. I'm 31 weeks pregnant and starting to really hope the last weeks fly in ! Feeling very heavy and uncomfortable.
Hope its okay to ask for some advice on this.. my friend recently found out she was pregnant and going on her last period she would have been around 9 weeks last week. She went to a private scan and unfortunately they advised they could only see an egg sac and foetal pole. She was referred to clinic within NHS who told her she had either miscarried very early or was only 4/5 weeks pregnant and had miscalculated her pregnancy dates. So she is booked in for a vaginal scan this week to know for sure what's happening. Has anyone ever heard of this? I'm trying my best to support her as she is in limbo right now! But also I dont know much about it at all. Any thoughts would be helpful x
Are her periods regular? If not, she could have ovulated much later than expected and that could explain the discrepancy. The 4 cycles before I got pregnancy this time were all 35days, and the one I got pregnant on was well over 60days.Hi everyone. I'm 31 weeks pregnant and starting to really hope the last weeks fly in ! Feeling very heavy and uncomfortable.
Hope its okay to ask for some advice on this.. my friend recently found out she was pregnant and going on her last period she would have been around 9 weeks last week. She went to a private scan and unfortunately they advised they could only see an egg sac and foetal pole. She was referred to clinic within NHS who told her she had either miscarried very early or was only 4/5 weeks pregnant and had miscalculated her pregnancy dates. So she is booked in for a vaginal scan this week to know for sure what's happening. Has anyone ever heard of this? I'm trying my best to support her as she is in limbo right now! But also I dont know much about it at all. Any thoughts would be helpful x
I'm so sorry you've had to go through that but congratulations on your pregnancy now! I guess I was wondering what the chances are she is still pregnant and it's not a miscarriage.. I'm being positive for her but being realistic does it look like it's been a miscarriage if that's what she's been told? It was an empty sac and foetal pole visible in the scan only.Yes, I’ve had a couple of miscarriages (now pregnant again) and that’s what happened to my first. Happy to answer any questions
This is what I'm thinking.. as far as shes told me she can be very irregular so I feel there could be a high chance of wrong dates. You don't want to be too optimistic obviously in case the worst has happenedAre her periods regular? If not, she could have ovulated much later than expected and that could explain the discrepancy. The 4 cycles before I got pregnancy this time were all 35days, and the one I got pregnant on was well over 60days.
Fingers crossed it is just the irregularity then. I hope she gets good news at her next scan.This is what I'm thinking.. as far as shes told me she can be very irregular so I feel there could be a high chance of wrong dates. You don't want to be too optimistic obviously in case the worst has happened