thank you yeah they know we have the scan tomorrow and about the reveal on the weekend. Long background story but my mum is disabled and needs a lot of help and care, so now it’s all kind of going to fall on me and I’m just stressing out thinking how am I going to basically help her with everything and have a baby. Just trying to not get myself too worked up and stressed for the baby’s sake . I think they would probably still go ahead with the reveal on the weekend, but now I don’t want to have them there and for it to feel really awkward and tense, I want it to be a happy memory and not me worrying about them arguing or anyone else sensing the tension.Oh that’s so sad, sorry to hear that! Did they know you were going to do a reveal at the weekend? Are they still on good terms or would they no longer be up for going ahead with it now?