I have not had surgery or any procedures like fillers etc. I barely wear make up and need to master that art before thinking of anything
However, I did have excess facial hair that I got laser hair removal on. This was LIFE CHANGING. I can’t stress that enough. I never wore hair up, hid behind my hair, incredibly shy. since getting it my entire life has improved. I’ve been to uni and got a decent job with multiple promotions, I’m very confident publicly and comfortable with my partner etc.
What I’m saying is if you can afford do, you should if it’s something that bothers you. It’s not a waste and honestly, take it from me, it’s worth every penny to wear hair up and earrings.