I really like PJ, In fact I am a huge fan, have seen him many times live over the years. The first time I heard anything about poly was stef using it for bait in her stories yesterday. I would be worried for him, having suffered and been treated for my own MH , I said to my husband after listening and watching all the interviews that he has done over the last few months that he actually sounds a bit manic, like he's gone from one extreme to the other in the space of a few weeks and its obviously the medication talking. I remember being like that myself when I got my meds right finally, I thought I was ok but looking back , now that I am actually "better" I can see how unwell I still was at that time and thats what it looks like what is going on with PJ to me.
It seems like this one has swooped in and he's gone along for the ride, He has always spoken about his distain for kids, and now twins? How does he even know the kids are his? I would be worried this one is just taking advantage of someone who is not in their right mind the last while
His previous marriage was not open or poly from what I know, and they were together a very long time before being married.
Of course none of this is based on facts I don't know him in real life , only what I see from listening to him on the radio and Instagram over the years