I agree with this. I do think that all her tuff trays ect were more for Instagram than for Vesper though and I wonder whether if she didn't have so many followers ect on Instagram, would she have done the same?I have no doubt that Phoebe is good at allowing and championing Vesper to learn through play and doing all the fun, fluffy type things. It’s great for effort to be made to pull out toys, build sensory areas because not all parents do that, that is one part of it though. By not allowing screen time doesn’t make her super mum and sure she wants time where she’ll not turn to a screen, amazing! But vesper doesn’t do that all the time anyway so it won’t be that hard when on holiday. (Different if it was Bossmummy who’s tablet parents sienna when out and about)
Allowing a child to go so long and have limited routine, structure and no consistency with cause and effect isnt going to work long term as it’s harder to build these things in the older they get. The little girl had no cosy space to call her own, her room was never made suitable for her and phoebe has admitted it herself, she couldn’t be bothered to decorate and make it her little girls room so just let her settle in a double bed etc because they co-bedded anyway with her for over 2 years. It was the same with weaning her off a bottle at night, she said then too she hadn’t tried to do it because it seemed like too much of an effort and a battle. She didn’t even know she should be taking her to the dentist or brushing her teeth at night.....at 2 years old!!!! maybe if she saw the health visitor then she’d be educated on parts of basic hygiene though!
In my opinion she is a very lazy parent and wants to avoid the true grit it takes to be resilient to get through the tough parts of what being a parent is. That’s why when she has no choice now but face up to what it takes when Vesper is kicking off she’s on insta moaning her face off in disbelief.
Vespers tantrums are definitely typical toddler tantrums, they all do it, but my point that I maybe didn’t make as clear is that without teaching the word no to something or whatever it may be they’re kicking off about and carrying that through, because we all have to learn, then it’s only going to get worse when she’s growing up and there’s also another child there. As someone else said though, the relationship between her and Jim is quite separate. They financially live and socialise partially separately and obviously parent in the same way.
regardless of whether the dentist will see them you still need to brush their teeth.... that’s common sense. The only reason some dentists won’t see them is because the kids won’t open their kouth for them to see anything, doesn’t mean they are not susceptible to poor dental healthI agree with this. I do think that all her tuff trays ect were more for Instagram than for Vesper though and I wonder whether if she didn't have so many followers ect on Instagram, would she have done the same?
I don't think so.
With the Dentist thing though, I do have to say, none of my dentists around here will actually take children until they're 3
Well yes. That part is pretty obviousregardless of whether the dentist will see them you still need to brush their teeth.... that’s common sense. The only reason some dentists won’t see them is because the kids won’t open their kouth for them to see anything, doesn’t mean they are not susceptible to poor dental health
Yeah I think it does too. My friend lives an hour from me and they take them on when their teeth start coming through!I think maybe the dentist thing varies by area? My eldest child went when she was 2 and that was the age the dentist said to bring her for the first time.
When we moved was told to bring my youngest when her teeth started coming through so she went at around 1.
They don’t do much when they are younger though think its more to get them used to the experience of going to the dentist.
‘Determined to take a bump pic today!’ What as oppose to every other day of the pissing week?! Is she having a tin bath?!?! I’ve seen nothing but your gut since the second Jimbo left wonderchild number two in there!!!Oh dear god here comes more in her underwear bump pics, I think I’ve seen her pregnant belly more time’s than I looked at my own, and I’ve been through it four times! Put it away love, we get it you are pregnant, you’re mama Earth, round of applause, no one gives a shit.
Glad I'm not the only one she enrages‘Determined to take a bump pic today!’ What as oppose to every other day of the pissing week?! Is she having a tin bath?!?! I’ve seen nothing but your gut since the second Jimbo left wonderchild number two in there!!!
This woman evokes a rage in me like no-one else. Sweet baby Jesus have a day OFF.
Tbh - this is the only pic that didn’t offend me. You can tell she has lost weight and she does actually look good. If she didn’t post one every day, remind us she’s pregnant or just be her annoying self, i’d actually like the pictureOh dear god here comes more in her underwear bump pics, I think I’ve seen her pregnant belly more time’s than I looked at my own, and I’ve been through it four times! Put it away love, we get it you are pregnant, you’re mama Earth, round of applause, no one gives a shit.
I agree, I definitely think she's lost weight during this pregnancy ... I thought the pics were quite tasteful. I don't have any children and tend to dip in and out of her profile so she doesn't really annoy me that much but I do enjoy reading everyone's commentsTbh - this is the only pic that didn’t offend me. You can tell she has lost weight and she does actually look good. If she didn’t post one every day, remind us she’s pregnant or just be her annoying self, i’d actually like the picture
I’m just catching up and I AM DEAD @ Mick SmugnelShe just likes to think Vesper is so advanced and sassy and so forward. She may well be.. doubt she has a choice with mick smugnel as a mummy!
Smugness and an ugly dress are not symptoms of pregnancy.Bloody hell girls! I mean I’m not her biggest fan, but some of the stuff on here is a bit savage. She’s heavily pregnant.
It's OK, we didn't like her when she wasn't pregnant, continuity and all that shit.Bloody hell girls! I mean I’m not her biggest fan, but some of the stuff on here is a bit savage. She’s heavily pregnant.
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