I was going to say he had to announce it because he is very publicly married with children but I suppose they could have just said they’d separated and then he could have gone about the rest of his life discreetly being gay. That way, if he was in a relationship in a couple of years (for example) which became public knowledge he could have just said “yes it’s true I am gay it’s not a big deal.” It didn’t need to be a huge public announcement pitty party 