How do we know she has helped a lot of people where is the proof apart from what she says which is absolute crap, she is a mum of 6 but how she got to this level is spouting how she helps people get into refuge etc domestic abuse if she is so busy she shouldn’t advertise that she will, it could be dangerousIt’s granted that she has helped a lot of women! I tried to reach out to her about some advice and she didn’t reply but she’s a mum of 6 kids, I’m sure she gets messages like that everyday so I left it
Most definitely not RachHi Rachaele
most definitely not Rachael but hiHi Rachaele
I don’t understand why someone can’t just help someone without having to post about on every social media going , it leads people like me into a false sense of security that I could actually reach out and she could help but probably bit off more than she can chew with it all ... I try and justify it by saying dozens of women like me message her similar things all day everyday and there’s only so much one person can do I suppose I don’t knowHow do we know she has helped a lot of people where is the proof apart from what she says which is absolute crap, she is a mum of 6 but how she got to this level is spouting how she helps people get into refuge etc domestic abuse if she is so busy she shouldn’t advertise that she will, it could be dangerous
I'm guessing you don't have a dog walker, a cleaner, a husband who does absolutely everything and a complete admin team picking up everything for you which is probably why you struggle to find time. She shouldn't have ignored you, or anyone else that messages her asking for advice or help. That's what she said she doesI just gave her the benefit of the doubt because even a mum to one , a new one aswell I struggle to even reply to anyone these days. But yet she does seem to prioritise ads these days , I don’t like that Instagram is used as a platform to sell stuff these days
Joined 24 minutes agoMost definitely not Rach
most definitely not Rachael but hi
I don’t understand why someone can’t just help someone without having to post about on every social media going , it leads people like me into a false sense of security that I could actually reach out and she could help but probably bit off more than she can chew with it all ... I try and justify it by saying dozens of women like me message her similar things all day everyday and there’s only so much one person can do I suppose I don’t know
Especially as she was being paid through PayPal to help womenI'm guessing you don't have a dog walker, a cleaner, a husband who does absolutely everything and a complete admin team picking up everything for you which is probably why you struggle to find time. She shouldn't have ignored you, or anyone else that messages her asking for advice or help. That's what she said she does
That’s the point though - if she only has the time to answer and “help”, say, 10% of the people who write to her, that’s not ok, it’s not acceptable. She’s not qualified to help, she’s not trained, she is, as you say, just a mum of six, and by all accounts she doesn’t even do much for half of those kids let alone saving victims of domestic abuse.Most definitely not Rach
most definitely not Rachael but hi
I don’t understand why someone can’t just help someone without having to post about on every social media going , it leads people like me into a false sense of security that I could actually reach out and she could help but probably bit off more than she can chew with it all ... I try and justify it by saying dozens of women like me message her similar things all day everyday and there’s only so much one person can do I suppose I don’t know
She’s good at accusing other peopleI joined because I felt her story this morning was about me ... I reached out to some of her follows as she’s ignored my messages about the advice I was seeking , this was a few days ago though. I was a fan , I defended her a lot but after speaking to some people who told me they’ve unfollowed her because of various things she’s accused them of I just feel abit shit about the whole thing ... I thought she was great tbh
it’s seems to be lick her arse or get completely abused by her team of bullies ... her platform attracts vulnerable women because of what she advocates in so as you can imagine , I feel and other women I’ve spoke to who she and some of her following has attacked it’s the worst to find out she’s not genuine and she’s just doing it for the money
Yep! She has put herself out there, to the point that every now and then someone will post on a local Facebook group saying they or a friend are in an abusive relationship and looking to leave, what do they do, and lots of well-meaning people will jump on and say "contact Part Time Working Mummy, she will help you", this could be so dangerous. For someone to message her, it may take a lot for that person to reach out, they may be having to delete their sent messages to make sure their partner can't see what they are trying to do etc, so to either get a bog standard "Rachaele is on a social media break", or "oh no, poor you" reply must be fucking heartbreaking. Someone on here said they asked for help and got an unhelpful reply about 4 months later - a violent partner could have killed them by that point. She doesn't even have an automated response message that gives websites or helplines that might be useful. I think there's a chance she started with good intentions, but that she got way out of her depth and has never made it clear that actually she isn't much help to someone in a domestic abuse situation.That’s the point though - if she only has the time to answer and “help”, say, 10% of the people who write to her, that’s not ok, it’s not acceptable. She’s not qualified to help, she’s not trained, she is, as you say, just a mum of six, and by all accounts she doesn’t even do much for half of those kids let alone saving victims of domestic abuse.
Of all the hundreds of people who have come forward here, I am pretty sure we’ve not had one who has shown evidence that Rachel helped them after they reached out to her. Yet we have seen plenty of evidence of people who contacted her in desperation only to be ignored or given some trite response such as “oh that’s shit hun”, which is almost worst than being ignored completely.
Many people have received a stock message to say that “Rachel is on a social media break so is unable to reply to messages” on the same day that she’s has been uploading adverts to make money from the follows of the very people she professes to help but actually does nothing for.
That’s really not the point. She’s marketed herself as a domestic violence advocacy worker constantly helping her warriors. If you messaged her about breastfeeding and she didn’t get back to you - fair enough. If you messaged her about raising chickens or dogs and she didn’t get back to you - fair enough. She claims she pays a wage to her “admin” so they at least could reply to someone reaching out seeking help in the very thing she claims her page / persona / job is for.It’s granted that she has helped a lot of women! I tried to reach out to her about some advice and she didn’t reply but she’s a mum of 6 kids, I’m sure she gets messages like that everyday so I left it
Like I said , I didn’t see through it all did I ? Just saw the best in her which I always do but there’s only so long it lasts when you begin to realise some things just aren’t rightThat’s really not the point. She’s marketed herself as a domestic violence advocacy worker constantly helping her warriors. If you messaged her about breastfeeding and she didn’t get back to you - fair enough. If you messaged her about raising chickens or dogs and she didn’t get back to you - fair enough. She claims she pays a wage to her “admin” so they at least could reply to someone reaching out seeking help in the very thing she claims her page / persona / job is for.
Same I honestly loved her page and everything until my eyes were well and truly openedLike I said , I didn’t see through it all did I ? Just saw the best in her which I always do but there’s only so long it lasts when you begin to realise some things just aren’t right
I would go as far to say I do not believe she even started out with good intentions. I believe she picked a USP that she knew would gain a lot of attention but that was almost impossible to prove her involvement in. Domestic abuse is ideal for this because “warriors”, as she calls them, have to be protected and their details kept confidential. So she can easily say oh yes I helped 12 vulnerable women and their children escape abuse last month, and no one can say - come on then, WHO? Because she will just say they are vulnerable people whose details are confidential. Foolproof.Yep! She has put herself out there, to the point that every now and then someone will post on a local Facebook group saying they or a friend are in an abusive relationship and looking to leave, what do they do, and lots of well-meaning people will jump on and say "contact Part Time Working Mummy, she will help you", this could be so dangerous. For someone to message her, it may take a lot for that person to reach out, they may be having to delete their sent messages to make sure their partner can't see what they are trying to do etc, so to either get a bog standard "Rachaele is on a social media break", or "oh no, poor you" reply must be fucking heartbreaking. Someone on here said they asked for help and got an unhelpful reply about 4 months later - a violent partner could have killed them by that point. She doesn't even have an automated response message that gives websites or helplines that might be useful. I think there's a chance she started with good intentions, but that she got way out of her depth and has never made it clear that actually she isn't much help to someone in a domestic abuse situation.
I think you’ve hit the nail on the head. But she took money from people to “help” people like you, to ensure she had staff to help, to leave her part time job to help. She advertised herself as someone to turn to, she did manage to film herself and her mother in law laughing at the homeless man, she has time to sit and film every aspect of her life, she had time to trawl through Tattle and shout troll. She is just selective about who she helps.Most definitely not Rach
most definitely not Rachael but hi
I don’t understand why someone can’t just help someone without having to post about on every social media going , it leads people like me into a false sense of security that I could actually reach out and she could help but probably bit off more than she can chew with it all ... I try and justify it by saying dozens of women like me message her similar things all day everyday and there’s only so much one person can do I suppose I don’t know
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