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laurynlouuuu

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she should be thankful that her daughter helps her as much as she does.
i’m similar to jaya in the sense of having a sibling with an additional need. it’s really hard and to have videos made about the situation is pathetic. jaya is a glass child and i can imagine she feels left out and what not.
i hope she gets her gcse’s and goes far away and doesn’t look back
 
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laurynlouuuu

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the thing is it’s quite easy to jump the dlr 😂
but i don’t understand why she didn’t have it

she probably only does get enjoyment from the endless trips etc but she could spend that money on accessible days out and things like that instead of dragging them to lewisham shopping centre
 
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JellyWobbles

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i don’t think that’s he reason 🤣
however i think jaya loves her siblings and will do whatever she can to help
jadie needs to put her foot down and not let her daughter do so.
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10000% i work with sen children and some of these parents have nothing or any ideas on things to do. however they make it work.
i was in shock when in her one of her latest vlogs she was in bed till 2 and then was in bed watching stuff.
i understand it’s hard going from 2 to 3 kids however none of her kids asked for this.
she’s lazy i’m sorry.
yes it’s hard and overwhelming however she chose this to have three kids.
not everyone who receives these benefits is frittering it away on mindless hauls of tat from wilko and ridiculous trainers for a four month old baby.
It is lazy parenting 100% and there’s no excuse for it, she’s blatantly neglecting her socially and emotionally.
 
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Sophie92

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I think it’s sad how involved Jaya has to be in her mum’s life. Jade physically can’t leave the house without Jaya either helping or staying at home to babysit. What happens if she wants to go to uni or move abroad or join the army?!
 
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Sophie92

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It honestly baffles me where all this money comes from. If she’s not spending £70 on Asda and getting taxis home it’s huge hauls at Westfield. She also just doesn’t have the space for anymore stuff, the state of her flat is awful.
 
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Hmmm?

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Jadie has had her beautiful baby boy on Monday 19th January. She has posted some pics on her Instagram.
 
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Sophie92

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Poor Jaya having a whole video made about what a nightmare she is! And why does she keeping saying she has no carers for Jas and then also saying the carers where there?!
 
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It sounds like Jas is gonna have a really tough time with all the ops coming up and I genuinely feel for Jadie as it must be awful. I just hope it won’t mean poor Jaya has to spend her whole summer looking after Reyne, you get so few summers off in the grand scheme of things and she’s at the age where you should be able to go off and enjoy and do your own thing with your mates (within reason obviously).
 
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laurynlouuuu

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I really hope social services are involved and I say that not being a bitch but because Jaya needs respite and Jazz needs more input in her life than laying in bed watching Disney. It’s neglect at the end of the day, and now she’s added a baby into the mix it’s clear she’s not handling it all very well. I’m concerned to be honest. Obviously it pisses me off, I mentioned before having a child with similar needs we don’t get carers or respite like she does, our child sleeps on Average 3hrs a night and yet we give our child much more fulfilment. I’m not trying to blow my own trumpet but seriously how could you just leave your child like that almost all day? Her only socialisation seems to be school it’s such a shame really sad to see. I don’t know how she didn’t panic thinking if this babe has a complex needs too, then what would she do?.
the thing is she is incredibly lucky to get the carers that she does. i don’t know what it’s like to have a child with additional needs however i am a SENco. i see parents on there knees wanting the extra support and struggling to get it.
i can imagine it’s hard to adapt things for children with needs but it can be done. she has enough professionals to ask for help or ideas. her carers managed to get jas to see santa , christmas parties , activities etc so why
it’s pure laziness
 
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JellyWobbles

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if its genetic theres high chances
Not always.
My daughters is an extremely rare (300 worldwide) which was discovered through a genetic study program in the UK. It wasn’t passed down, it was literally shit luck and she developed it whilst In the womb as a bunch of cells.

Lots of children with needs like our childrens generally go undiagnosed, although they know it’s genetic. For anyone affected by this please reach out for support by SWAN UK & Unique. x
 
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i don’t think that’s he reason 🤣
however i think jaya loves her siblings and will do whatever she can to help
jadie needs to put her foot down and not let her daughter do so.
If she feeds in bed like a lot of people (especially if she’s breastfeeding him) I’d be concerned someone stoned would be more likely to fall asleep during a night feed which can be dangerous 🤷‍♀️
 
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laurynlouuuu

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nope the council wont
four bedroom properties in london are few and far between.
yes she is overcrowded but so are many other families.
she’ll have much more luck relocating
 
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These posts are coming across so nasty and judgmental, something that Jade herself doesn’t seem to be at all. Would rather see her family realness than the usual fake-perfect families all over the place 🤷🏻‍♀️
I don’t think anyone is being nasty or judgemental, at the end of the day everyone will have an opinion on people on social media whether it’s a fashion account or a lifestyle account. Yes she seems like a nice person and I don’t think anyone has disputed that. The majority of people who sign up to use Tattle aren’t here to give glowing opinions on everything and everyone.
 
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JellyWobbles

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i’m actually baffled how she affords it all
the endless takeaways , the asda shops , westfield hauls.
just love that she can afford the baby bjorn carrier (may be cheap to some etc) and then did a full haul of other crap.
like how is she affording this
DLA. She will get high rate for both elements plus UC disability element, Income support and carers allowance - all money she’s meant to utilise for Jaz, but can clearly see it isn’t. plus she has one less mouth to feed so to speak as Jaz is tube fed. That’s how.
 
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I like her and think she’s a great Mum but personally, it would be my worst nightmare just to be a Mum. I think (not saying this applies to her) a lot of women have babies because they lack love and affection and it’s unfair to put that on a child.
 
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