Don’t give up-I went on well over 500 dates over a couple of years on and offSome of these have had me laughing out loud. I’ve been on and off dating apps for 3 years. It’s draining
You obviously get on enough to want to go for a drink so is it just the height thing that is putting you off? Is it a major thing for you? If not just message him...what have you got to lose?I was feeling bold last night and sent my hinge match a message saying “are we going for a drink or not” after it seemed he killed the conversation on Sunday night.he replied with his number and to WhatsApp him. I’m yet to text him, though... because he reckon he’s 5’11 but I’m 5’9 and deffo look taller than him....
Are you happy just meeting up for sex or would you like to hear from him more? I'd be annoyed if you used to chat and now you don't so much if I actually enjoyed the chat. So it depends really. If you're happy with just a casual thing then carry it on but keep your options open and speak to other guys. But if you want something more then I'd be clear and honest with him and if he can't give you what you want then fuck him right off! You deserve more.Okay so this isn’t a horror story but could do with some advice. I’ve been seeing a guy for a couple of months I met online, he’s nice seems genuine. I see him once a week and it’s mainly for sex but he does stay for a couple of hours to chill afterwards..
before we met he would text me all the time (I have no issue with that) since we have met and over the last couple of months I’m lucky if I hear from him once a day. ive asked him about it and he says it’s just him and everyone pulls him up on it, but he wasn’t like it before we met. Hes online off and on all day to.. (I’m not psycho but I’ve noticed every now and then). Am I just being really stupid and letting myself be used? I feel like a stupid teenager saying it but he does seem genuine.
I wouldn’t even be overly bothered if he had always been this way but like I said before we met we would chat a lot throughout the day & evening. Please don’t judge me if this sounds ridiculous
thank you so much. If I’m honest Im not sure. I went into just wanted casual but we both agreed to tell one another if we met other people etc. However apparently I catch feelings like there going out of fashion which I think is what’s making me more wary.Are you happy just meeting up for sex or would you like to hear from him more? I'd be annoyed if you used to chat and now you don't so much if I actually enjoyed the chat. So it depends really. If you're happy with just a casual thing then carry it on but keep your options open and speak to other guys. But if you want something more then I'd be clear and honest with him and if he can't give you what you want then fuck him right off! You deserve more.
thank you so much. If I’m honest Im not sure. I went into just wanted casual but we both agreed to tell one another if we met other people etc. However apparently I catch feelings like there going out of fashion which I think is what’s making me more wary.
I think I’d be happier with just a little more contact in the week as I feel like I’m talking to myself most of the time and he just responds when he feels like it. I know I’m probably reading into it far to much but it’s just I want to be acknowledged that little bit more.
I’ve never had a casual sex relationship thing before so it’s all new to me.
Haha your like me then, can dish the advice but crap at taking it myselfYeah I know what you mean, you wanna feel like he cares a bit more to chat to you more and he should! He shouldn't just read them and ignore, especially as he's online and has the time. I'd just back off, don't text him so much keep yourself busy by talking to others or just your friends and see if he bothers texting you a lot again. Sometimes men are selfish lol and take things for granted. There's nothing wrong with catching feelings and wanting to feel valued. He shouldn't just say he's busy. He should say he's sorry and he should make more effort. I'm alright at giving advice but I'm shit in my own situations lol. Been there and done that many a time with men who didn't deserve me and didn't really care!
They say no man is nicer than a one who hasn’t shagged you yet. Move on he’s not worth it.Okay so this isn’t a horror story but could do with some advice. I’ve been seeing a guy for a couple of months I met online, he’s nice seems genuine. I see him once a week and it’s mainly for sex but he does stay for a couple of hours to chill afterwards..
before we met he would text me all the time (I have no issue with that) since we have met and over the last couple of months I’m lucky if I hear from him once a day. ive asked him about it and he says it’s just him and everyone pulls him up on it, but he wasn’t like it before we met. Hes online off and on all day to.. (I’m not psycho but I’ve noticed every now and then). Am I just being really stupid and letting myself be used? I feel like a stupid teenager saying it but he does seem genuine.
I wouldn’t even be overly bothered if he had always been this way but like I said before we met we would chat a lot throughout the day & evening. Please don’t judge me if this sounds ridiculous
Never heard that saying but it definitely resonates.They say no man is nicer than a one who hasn’t shagged you yet. Move on he’s not worth it.
have you stopped texting him and see if he pops up more looking for you? You’ll soon find out if he makes an effort.
I've had a friend in a similar situation and no matter what people said (tough love, understanding, whatever technique), she just wouldnt listen until she realised herself that he wasnt into it.Okay so this isn’t a horror story but could do with some advice. I’ve been seeing a guy for a couple of months I met online, he’s nice seems genuine. I see him once a week and it’s mainly for sex but he does stay for a couple of hours to chill afterwards..
before we met he would text me all the time (I have no issue with that) since we have met and over the last couple of months I’m lucky if I hear from him once a day. ive asked him about it and he says it’s just him and everyone pulls him up on it, but he wasn’t like it before we met. Hes online off and on all day to.. (I’m not psycho but I’ve noticed every now and then). Am I just being really stupid and letting myself be used? I feel like a stupid teenager saying it but he does seem genuine.
I wouldn’t even be overly bothered if he had always been this way but like I said before we met we would chat a lot throughout the day & evening. Please don’t judge me if this sounds ridiculous
I think you have probably hit the nail on the head.I've had a friend in a similar situation and no matter what people said (tough love, understanding, whatever technique), she just wouldnt listen until she realised herself that he wasnt into it.
I think deep down, you know what the answer is, but as you implied in another post, you maybe dont want to accept it?
Anyway, it's fine for you to have caught feelings and for you to want more, so dont be embarrased about that
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