One Direction #7 Spaces between them

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Louis, is the kindest soul! That was beautiful and made me tear up 🥹 the part about Bear 😭
 
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I have family members who are friends with Niall Horans family. Lived on the same estate. My uncle used to go to the pub with Niall's Dad. Very grounded family. My cousin got invited by Niall to a concert and to the after party...made his year!!!
 
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That statement from Louis 😭 broken me. Especially the part about Bear. They obviously had an amazing bond. Ah man I’m in my feels today just find this all so bloody sad xx
 
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Did anyone see his stories that went up just before he died on Snapchat? There was a strange one where he snaps at Kate for leaving her hat on the table. I could feel the tension in her voice. It seems like he was trying his best to pick an argument.
I actually found that video rather disturbing. His demeanour in it is quite sneering, even when he says good morning. There's almost a simmering rage bubbling underneath the calm exterior, and the look he gives her after he says "It's rude to put hats on the table" made me shudder a bit, as someone who has been in a relationship with an abusive addict and has experienced being on the receiving end of looks like that.

He was obviously in a really bad place, and it's been disheartening to see some of the comments about how she should feel guilty for leaving him and going home early. We have no idea what was going on behind closed doors, but if that video is anything to go by, I don't think we can blame her if she felt like she needed to leave for her own sake before his behaviour escalated.

Despite that, I do feel incredibly sad how things have ended for him. I'm am addict in recovery myself, and I wouldn't wish the often fatal combination of severe mental health issues and addiction on anyone. (That's not to say it ever justifies or excuses abusive behaviour. It certainly doesn't.) I do hope he's managed to find the peace which so cruelly eluded him in life.
 
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Harry's will be the last to post but I know it's going to actually break my heart reading it
 
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oh my jesus louis' post... and zayn's... heartbreaking. i really feel for louis right now, he's already lost his mum and sister 😞 how much can one person take really?
 
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Such lovely words from Zayn 🥲 If anything I hope this brings the boys a bit closer… we all speculated about some of them not being close now but this words only show how deep of a bond they have/had
 
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i think niall will post something next.... him and liam were very close in the band. jesus. i really hope they're all together now for support. i know louis flew back to england today and niall was in london, praying they're all in the same space (inc zayn)
 
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The paps have already been so ghoulish getting pictures of Niall today. I hope people don’t pressure Niall or Harry to post if they don’t want to. It’s already a bizarre expectation for them to perform their grief for strangers but the 1d machine already took enough from them.
 
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Louis and Zayns posts 💔💔💔 so sad to see Zayn open up about thinking there would be more time and certain conversations would be had 😭 just goes to show you how unbelievably short life can be they all clearly love eachother very much it’s a brotherhood deeply ingrained due to how much they’ve gone through together genuinely heartbreaking ❤‍🩹
 
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I actually found that video rather disturbing. His demeanour in it is quite sneering, even when he says good morning. There's almost a simmering rage bubbling underneath the calm exterior, and the look he gives her after he says "It's rude to put hats on the table" made me shudder a bit, as someone who has been in a relationship with an abusive addict and has experienced being on the receiving end of looks like that.

He was obviously in a really bad place, and it's been disheartening to see some of the comments about how she should feel guilty for leaving him and going home early. We have no idea what was going on behind closed doors, but if that video is anything to go by, I don't think we can blame her if she felt like she needed to leave for her own sake before his behaviour escalated.

Despite that, I do feel incredibly sad how things have ended for him. I'm am addict in recovery myself, and I wouldn't wish the often fatal combination of severe mental health issues and addiction on anyone. (That's not to say it ever justifies or excuses abusive behaviour. It certainly doesn't.) I do hope he's managed to find the peace which so cruelly eluded him in life.
Yes I feel exactly the same in regards to him reminding me of my abusive ex. I got a shiver when I saw it even before the news broke. I hope he is at peace now because it seemed he was unlikely to ever find it in this world.
 
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