One Direction #7 Spaces between them

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Was the kidney failure due to alcohol?
I read he was born premature barely alive and one kidney was severely scarred and the other wasn’t great either. He took a total of 16 injections a day as a youngster to deal with the excruciating pain
 
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He’s on the right medication at the moment and is luckily do well. And I’m so grateful for his friend finding him. As much as the NHS does some good, I couldn’t be more angry with them for sending him home. For not getting in touch with the right people and listening and sectioning him. He did need help. He was hearing voices telling him to kill himself and all these awful things to himself. Things he would never do. He told them and it still wasn’t enough.
I’m so sorry that you and your baby’s life was put in danger by them not taking your word as gospel and just basically saying “it’ll pass.” I know the NHS is stretched and we have all these numbers and quotas to reach, but surely it would be better to have a person helped as a quota than them be as a death? I totally agree that they only care when it’s too late or it’s gotten too hard for the person to be helped.
I hope you’re feeling well now x
Glad to hear he is doing well ,I know the strain it puts on families of the individual struggling too and theres not near enough support for them either .I dont blame you for being angry,Ive seen it happen many times .Recently a man was talked down for a bridge in my town and taken to hospital where they then let him go home and low and behold the next week he was back on the bridge .Luckily he has recieved some help since but something has got to change.
Im doing well thankyou,it took me years to feel 'ok' and it took so much from me that I will never get back but Im just grateful to be here .x
 
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Glad to hear he is doing well ,I know the strain it puts on families of the individual struggling too and theres not near enough support for them either .I dont blame you for being angry,Ive seen it happen many times .Recently a man was talked down for a bridge in my town and taken to hospital where they then let him go home and low and behold the next week he was back on the bridge .Luckily he has recieved some help since but something has got to change.
Im doing well thankyou,it took me years to feel 'ok' and it took so much from me that I will never get back but Im just grateful to be here .x
I think we might live in the same town x
 
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Nothing from 5SOS which I find really weird. The 1D tour basically gave them their break when they toured with them. It feels icky to me they haven’t said anything yet.
This information is incredibly hard for people to process, people are understandably devastated. Social media has ruined society that now people think within 24 hours of a person dying people associated with that person are obligated to post. You don’t know how much of an effect this has had on everyone involved at all.
 
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Was the kidney failure due to alcohol?
I’m pretty sure the initial damage was due to him being being born early and a medical condition, but the years of excessive drinking will have made any damage much worse. I can’t remember if he had a kidney removed or if it remained but only one functioned.
 
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This information is incredibly hard for people to process, people are understandably devastated. Social media has ruined society that now people think within 24 hours of a person dying people associated with that person are obligated to post. You don’t know how much of an effect this has had on everyone involved at all.
I don’t know the effect it has on anyone that’s why I deleted the post babe. 1D men owe us nothing as far as I’m concerned if they do a joint post and nothing else I understand. But a colleague from 10+ years ago who helped me get a leg up in my chosen field I might say something.
 
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I don’t know the effect it has on anyone that’s why I deleted the post babe. 1D men owe us nothing as far as I’m concerned if they do a joint post and nothing else I understand. But a colleague from 10+ years ago who helped me get a leg up in my chosen field I might say something.
There isn’t a time limit to people posting condolence posts? Some people won’t do it until after funeral’s or when a date such a birthday or anniversary of something comes up.

Plus, a lot of people’s first thought isn’t to go straight to social media, it’s not even been 24 hours…
 
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Even when you don’t compare yourself to others, you’ll get toxic people in life who will do it for you unfortunately. And should you say I don’t compare myself to to others, you’re seen as thinking you’re better than them or high and mighty when it’s just the healthy way to be
I say he felt pressure that he wasn't as successful as Niall and Harry.

Exactly. My sister is more intelligent than me and I know it but couldn't give a f.

I think it was the comedown from being Beatles famous to just being that lad who knows Niall
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There isn’t a time limit to people posting condolence posts? Some people won’t do it until after funeral’s or when a date such a birthday or anniversary of something comes up.

Plus, a lot of people’s first thought isn’t to go straight to social media, it’s not even been 24 hours…
I presume Harry Niall and Louis will say something together and are planning it as we speak. Dunno if Zayn would even be arsed or attending the funeral. Saw them three times with my kid cousins and he didn't speak a word at any gig he's a pos
 
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Did anyone see his stories that went up just before he died on Snapchat? There was a strange one where he snaps at Kate for leaving her hat on the table. I could feel the tension in her voice. It seems like he was trying his best to pick an argument.
 
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Hotel workers are saying he had an argument in the lobby because they wouldn't let him into the pool. He went upto his room and destroyed it before attempting to jump into the pool from his room on the third floor
Adding to my previous quoted post because I haven't seen this mentioned:

One of the hotel workers texts have been posted on twitter. It shows him describing someone kicking off in the hotel lobby. And the next text is about "2 whores" and "won't pay"

I saw speculation that he was with 2 women, assumed to be sex workers, who he refused to pay, and the hotel manager (I think) stepped in to pay as a way of dealing with the chaos in the lobby before sending Liam back to his room. That was from someone who lives in the area. I didn't know how true that was so I checked our their local news and it says the police are looking to speak to the 2 women who were with him
 
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This is all just so… dark. I don’t know, just really really sad. He was clearly unwell and was being made fun of online for the past while. It’s so depressing. Obviously he did bad things but people are complex and addiction and mental illness can turn you into a completely different person.
 
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This is all just so… dark. I don’t know, just really really sad. He was clearly unwell and was being made fun of online for the past while. It’s so depressing. Obviously he did bad things but people are complex and addiction and mental illness can turn you into a completely different person.
Totally agree I’ve watched a few of his past interviews on Tik tok where he was in a better place and I was actually shocked at how well he come across and seemed fairly clued on. Which is a far cry from what we had seen recently.
 
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Louis tribute brought a tear to my eye. I'm 37 and i always struggle with seeing some one younger than me grieving some one their own age.

The death of some one so young is so wrong and immensely difficult to process
 
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