I know exactly what you mean. Raven is one of those kids that even the other parents of her nursery children will dislike! She needs yanking off Peas tit, and needs to hear the word no.
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Well she’s already hitting nursery staff isn’t she. I worry what R could do to the baby if Pea’s back is turned.agree with every single word you’ve said and I couldn’t have written it better myself! I also have the same views of Raven and she TOTALLY looks spiteful! I can imaging her hitting and biting other kids at school
Turn her back on Raven? She doesn't know what that means!
Oh gosh you are 100% right. My mistake!
Wonder what’s with the radio silence today. I reckon she’s been reading the thread and is wondering how best to play it.
So shocked at this!! It’s like the new baby is just an inconvenience.
Poor Ember. Thats all i can say. At least she has her dad, he may be able to have a relationship with her though, unlike R. Im actually disgusted with the comment where she let Ember cry out for a feed, days old, while her 3.5 yo sucks on her tit, taking all of the much needed supply of milk that SHOULD be for her newborn. She needs serious help, and Dean needs to grow a pair and tell Nicola the baby should be priority for feeding!!
She is so fixated about keeping everything normal for Raven that she is sacrificing her relationship with Ember. To be fair Ember is far too little to remember this stage. The positive side is that ember will get to socialise early with her family. She can spend the afternoon with someone who wont be sticking their phone in her face and actually get interaction. I can only really see the positives, the less time she spends with that overbearing Pea mother, the more she wont become like Raven!!
I don't think we need to worry about whether or not their particular sleep set up is safer because there isn't any sleeping going on - that's the problem!
She is, which awful.
But it’s not about whether or not the baby will remember though. There will be some seriously fucked up dynamics in that family if R remains the golden child and the baby stays second fiddle. It happens more often than you think.
An acquaintance of mine on social media has twins and one is so obviously her favourite. When they were babies, her and her partner used to take care of one each, and it’s kind of stayed that way ever since.
Love that she has to clarify the bottle will contain expressed breastmilk. Can't have any crunchy parents thinking she might be using formula, heaven forbid
That poor babies head/neck 
It really irks me when I see people not supporting their babies head, especially when they’re in wraps!
The videos she posts like that where the camera is on her, then pans to the baby/Raven/her tits or whatever, then back to her are so odd. She always looks so creepy and smug.
Oh my, tuck that babies head in! Or support it!
I'm disgusted by that screen shot.
Queen R takes precedent again.
I agree with others, I know it's weird to say but I really dislike R. She just looks like a little tit and it's not her fault but there it is.
My daughter was 4 in December and she can be savage, but she's empathic, kind, respectful and polite, because I've taught her to be.
Pea hasn't taught r Any of the skills she needs as she grows up.
That poor baby, I'd kill for a 2nd but am now infertile and this just breaks my heart
Queen R takes precedent again.
I agree with others, I know it's weird to say but I really dislike R. She just looks like a little tit and it's not her fault but there it is.
My daughter was 4 in December and she can be savage, but she's empathic, kind, respectful and polite, because I've taught her to be.
Pea hasn't taught r Any of the skills she needs as she grows up.
That poor baby, I'd kill for a 2nd but am now infertile and this just breaks my heart
So sorry to hear about your infertility
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