What I dont understand about peas totally permissive parenting style, oops, I mean 'gentle attachment parenting'
is how does she think she is going to be able to parent the new baby?! Is newborn going to be pushed aside so that pea can continue to give raven her undivided attention? Is baby going to suffer raven being mean and aggressive for months on end because pea wont tell ray off?! All of it is so bizarre I actually connot believe they decided to have another baby while pea is still so dependent on ravens attention every second of the day.dean must feel like such a spare part in that household, seems he serves no purpose except money
That's what I genuinely don't understand. Be as gentle and compassionate as you like but when you look at how it's presented, it's madness. You've got a 3 year old who cries and screams because she doesn't want her Dad there and you don't stop it because you don't want to invalidate her feelings so you don't tell her she shouldn't be doing it. She draws over you, she makes a mess and that's OK because she's expressing herself.
She's hitting and biting staff at nursery and you are seeking advice on gentle pages on how you can discipline the nursery, not the child that needs it. She feeds through the night and you let her feed, despite having no milk because, well, it's what R wants.
What happens when the baby arrives and R screams at the baby because she doesn't want it there? What happens if R tries hurt the baby when she's feeding because as far as she is concerned, the boobs belong to her?
Every toddler reacts negatively to a newborn so I can only imagine R going off the scale so at what point does R get boundaries? She doesn't get told off by you for biting staff and instead you are across at the Nursery for being negative, what will you do if she bites the baby?
Its going to be a shit show and I bet she doesn't show any of it.
3 year olds can all have episodes of being little dicks in a "normal" upbringing with normal boundaries, imagine trying to teach a 3 year old with no boundaries that all of a sudden there is actually things they can't do?