Babies require unlimited patience and kindness, that would be very trying for them.All the photos of her with Joe, sorry Joeyyyyy she just radiates out smugness. I reckon we could see her aura of smug from space.
I do think her current look and attitude with Fork are more of the real her, the photos that have been uploaded of when she was with Marcus seem more like this Niomi too. All very long hair that is bleached to it's limit, revealing, flirty clothing and the constant socialising with a drink in hand. (Also she is clearly eating fish at the resort isn't she?) Now, the woman she was with Joe - or who she showed her auidence she was then - that was all an act. I believe she was so enthralled by him and how attractive she found him (salivating over a photo of him when Charlotte went on a date with him) that she began to act in a way she thought he would like and then the whole thing snowballed.
With the fork she seems to be reverting to her true nature, this may be unpopular but I think they are very well suited. I might go out on a limb and say I wouldn't be shocked if she had an accidental / oopsy pregnancy by this time next year, but probably no wedding for at least five. They'll move into a larger rented house in London so he can keep his clients and she'll have the shed as an air bnb. Mummy wellness guides will follow, getting back your pelvic floor with my workout guide available on the getitdone app. My green juice meal replacement guide for breastfeeding, all on the app etc.
Reading your comment made me wonder if she really fell deeply for Joe and curated a persona she thought he would like/want to be with.. or something like that versus just being herself. And that's what's still biting her on the ass as she alludes to stuff like that in her desperation podcasts. That she never got to be herself somehow. Well if this is her then YIKES.