Took some time to think of Nicola, all those who are missing and remain so, and I will be thinking of her friends and family over the next few days as they come to terms with this sad news. RIP Nicola Bulley, may you and your family now be treated with the dignity that you deserve x
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Just heard the news and watched the press conference. Very saddened and devastated by the news, but at least the family have got some form of closure even if the outcome of her disappearance was the least desirable. I can’t begin to comprehend how they may be feeling. Hopefully, they’ll get their answers and in the meantime news outlets such as Sky, BBC and ITV News can hang their heads in shame. Kay Burley and her wretched little sidekick marching up and down the River Wyre and disturbing dog walkers was offensive to say the least. I don’t even care to mention the mentally insane, social-media driven self-appointed detectives who were digging up fields, during the search for her. Glad Faulding’s spate of media appearances today were criticised by the family as well. Thank you for everyone on this thread keeping me informed as more often than not, I’ve looked towards this thread to provide factual answers to my questions surrounding Nicola’s disappearance as opposed to the gutter press 
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To anyone who needs to hear this today - you're doing the very best you can.
There's a poem by Wendy Cope called The Orange. It's a simple poem, but it holds a deeper meaning. For me personally, I read it on my worst days and it reminds me of the little things in life that bring contentment. I hope everyone is doing OK, and if you're not, be gentle with yourself. You're doing the best you can.
The Orange by Wendy Cope -
At lunchtime I bought a huge orange—
The size of it made us all laugh.
I peeled it and shared it with Robert and Dave—
They got quarters and I had a half.
And that orange, it made me so happy,
As ordinary things often do
Just lately. The shopping. A walk in the park.
This is peace and contentment. It’s new.
The rest of the day was quite easy.
I did all the jobs on my list
And enjoyed them and had some time over.
I love you. I’m glad I exist.
There's a poem by Wendy Cope called The Orange. It's a simple poem, but it holds a deeper meaning. For me personally, I read it on my worst days and it reminds me of the little things in life that bring contentment. I hope everyone is doing OK, and if you're not, be gentle with yourself. You're doing the best you can.
The Orange by Wendy Cope -
At lunchtime I bought a huge orange—
The size of it made us all laugh.
I peeled it and shared it with Robert and Dave—
They got quarters and I had a half.
And that orange, it made me so happy,
As ordinary things often do
Just lately. The shopping. A walk in the park.
This is peace and contentment. It’s new.
The rest of the day was quite easy.
I did all the jobs on my list
And enjoyed them and had some time over.
I love you. I’m glad I exist.
I took from it that they were so adamant as they were fully in denial, and I can’t blame them for that. They were doing what they could to preserve their own sanity and keep that hope alive.
link is in the recap xxCan someone do a new thread please, before 7pm?Xx
Rest in peace lovely lady.
Many people have shared information about challenging issues and have received advice, support and love. You have helped raise the importance of seeking help when things are tough.
All my best wishes to all who loved you.
Many people have shared information about challenging issues and have received advice, support and love. You have helped raise the importance of seeking help when things are tough.
All my best wishes to all who loved you.
Just a thought. Could the threads be removed? Then there would be nothing for her daughters to look back on in terms of tattle. Just a thought. Forgive me if I've said something wrong.
RIP Nicola. So glad you have been found, so that you can be laid to rest, thoughts are with all your family at this saddest of times, bless you. A Lancashire Rose for you and you family and especially your girls, sleep tight lady.
Sorry, it was ITV but I can't edit it now, I was so angry I got mixed up.
To all of you who have shared your struggles, your losses and your heartbreak I’m sending you nothin but love and kind thoughts.
And if anyone ever comes across this thread in horrible times and feels like there is no way out please seek help and support. The dark isn’t permanent, it will come light again and the first steps are the hardest. Big big biggggg hugs to u all xx
And if anyone ever comes across this thread in horrible times and feels like there is no way out please seek help and support. The dark isn’t permanent, it will come light again and the first steps are the hardest. Big big biggggg hugs to u all xx
They could I guess. @Yel ?
ETA @Toffeebythesea the only thing is all of the wider discussions would be lost and they are the ones that might be helpful.
Yes thats true. Apologies
Don’t apologise! I do agree. It’s a difficult one xYes thats true. Apologies
If you want the threads removed Dolls, ask on the Site Support and Questions thread, otherwise the Mods might not see the request xx
I think removal may be a good idea. I’m not sure anyone in time of need would think to look back over a missing persons thread?
No, but searching keywords on the site would find helpful posts
They were obviously desperate when they called Faulding in, and if it were me I’d want him looking too.
Unfortunately, he turned out to be an attention seeking idiot but it was too late by then.
Nicola
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