I really think that people are forgetting that there is nothing and no one more suspicious than a police person. A Police person in a missing person case basically live ‘Trust No One’. They won’t believe anything just because someone says so. Unless and until they have proof of their own then it’s just something they have been told.
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Self medicating to try and black out the real reason Nicola is missing which is
HIM!!!
Exactly. Given a partner is usually the first person to rule out in cases like this, the Police will have definitely analysed his alibi.
Like you, I just can't see how he'd have got to Nicola and back without being seen by CCTV or people. And that's if he walked or drove there.
I didn’t at any point disagree with you, or say that your opinion wasn’t valid.
Possibly, but my point was in the response to your point saying 'why is it so difficult to believe that she's harmed herself'... (And I always say this in other threads...there's 'your truth, my truth and THE truth'.)
So my point is, even in denial, why would they risk putting a vulnerable person in an even more vulnerable position by whipping up a frenzy. Surely, the police would have recommended to Paul that a channel 5 interview would be detrimental.
Regardless of whether she's harmed herself or ran away, Nicola has lost alot of her dignity and someone has to be accountable for that.
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I did notice this yesterday. This new information was brought by new posters to the thread. Possibly innocently carried over from FB though? I’m not on FB, it shits me. I did wonder was it being fed to us too though. Even so, the older stuff is still from his his accounts which were public, which is just asking to be found. Tik Tok, Pinterest, Linked In and Insta. That’s no oversight in my opinion. Especially for a computer engineer. Leads me to wonder, who is Curtis?
I think its a tragic story of a not so perfect home life and Mr Narcissistic can't bare it coming out.
It didn't need to come out either, the media attention was driven by him and hangers on. Now its going to bite him on his hairy ass.
I 100% believe Nicola was living with a brute.
It didn't need to come out either, the media attention was driven by him and hangers on. Now its going to bite him on his hairy ass.
I 100% believe Nicola was living with a brute.
I think I read that they (police and/or family) had reason to believe that someone was going to go to the press and divulge that very personal information so they were trying to get ahead of the game. I don't think they needed to expand on 'vulnerabilities' but I'm not the police. They have been heavily criticized for this too.
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We also don't know if all members of the family and friends were fully co-operating with police advice. I thought I heard that the family invited the diving team in to help with the search - not the police. The police were facing heavy criticism at that time too so public opinion sided with the narrative given by the family, ie that she had simply vanished.
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I wonder if their relationship was breaking to the point of potentially separation, and he's kind of... indifferent to her disappearance? Sounds horrible but it would explain why he feels angry instead of upset, because he doesn't have feelings for her anymore. It's not something he'd admit for obvious reasons.
I'd open with that. Sums it up well
I can’t shake the feeling that he’s worn her down, made her self esteem so low with his pervy ways, gaslighted her in to genuinely believing she had a drinking problem, probably convinced her she will lose her the kids if she leaves him and she couldn’t see any other way out.
I hope she’s out there somewhere to tell her side of the story one day, but I don’t think she is.
I hope she’s out there somewhere to tell her side of the story one day, but I don’t think she is.
I know that but that was AFTER the channel 5 interview. And the only reason it was going to leak was because of the media interest.
There's being in denial about someone's vulnerabilities and there's whipping up a frenzy.
The police have been dealing with missing people and mental health issues for years, so why was this case any different?
Its common sense (for police) to say 'Dont do the interview, because if she is alive, this scrutiny could push her further'...
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I totally agree!! I think she's vulnerable because of him not because she's some raging alcoholic going through the menopause.
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Nicola Bulley #14
Continuing from the last thread, there have been no further updates from the Police or Nicola’s family. Please read the Wiki for all info prior to today, this has been updated this morning with previous recaps. On Friday evening, it was mentioned that Paul's TikTok and Pinterest accounts were...
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Haven’t checked this thread in approx
24hrs and it’s turned completely batshit. Will try again in another 24 hrs
24hrs and it’s turned completely batshit. Will try again in another 24 hrs
I don't think the police believe she is alive. Hence, their working hypothesis.
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