Nicola Bulley #13

[anotheronebitesthedust.1]

Just seen a newspaper reporting her last text which was arranging a play date for her kids the following week with a friends

The friend said this indicates she had no intention of voluntarily disappearing, adding: "You wouldn’t have done that if you were going to get up and go missing.

Yea well , Gary speed did that the night before he passed . Made arrangement to have lunch with friends the weekend away . Making future arrangements doesn’t mean anything when mental health is involved

 

[Dotty Merton]

Same as the friend of a friend of mine, she had dinner with her family the night before she disappeared, had made plans to do the food shop with her parents the next day, in the meantime she had wiped her data, thoroughly cleaned her room before disappearing into the night. No one expected it at all.

So sorry about your friend. My Mum did similar and got really organised. Had a supper with friends the night before. She had planned it years ahead, left me with full instructions for the funeral, a little label on everything she wanted people to have. She'd subtly mentioned bridges over the years and how she always wanted to jump when at an 'edge'. So much so that when I got the call to say she was missing from home I knew straight away she would of gone to a bridge. She went to a different bridge than I thought she would though. Could Nikki of slipped off somewhere else? Somewhere right under our noses? My Mum wasn't a physically strong woman but so determined was she that she carried a wee step ladder all the way up the hill to get to the bridge with less pedestrians that could stop her and to be sure she could climb over the railings.

I just watched the Hazard video, golly, that's really rather haunting all things considered.

May there be some resolution to this awful torture for the family soon.

 

[BigMavis]

Stop normalising men looking at women outside of their relationship. Unless its an open relationship in which case cool. But if its a committed relationship its not cool or normal for guys to openly follow young womens social media accounts, young women with their flesh on display saying they suck on tiktok. Probably normal but really is it ok? How some men speak about females in each others company is also not ok. If men don't want to be with their wives/partners that's also cool. They can leave. Totally acceptable to leave. Cool?

 

[InTheDollsHouse]

I would just like to say, for anyone reading here for the first time having been directed from a post on fb, we have 12 whole threads of 1,000 posts each just about Nicola’s disappearance.

Every single one of those threads has held a huge range of discussions over every possible scenario but, no matter what else, the overarching message has been one of support for Nicola.

Whether individual posters have thought she has fallen, jumped, been pushed, been abducted, wandered away, or any other possible option, every single person hopes beyond all else that she is safe somewhere and she will be able to come home to her girls.

No one here agreed with her personal medical information being shared like it was, but that in itself brought an unbelievable outpouring of understanding and shared experiences for what she may have been going through.

The support shown to each other on these pages has been amazing.

This may be a gossip website.
It may be slated by influencers.
Users may be called trolls.
Where Nicola is concerned, none of that is true.
This has been one huge hug, and I for one am thankful for everyone here.

Please don’t make assumptions about what happens here.

If you’d like to read what we’ve been saying, here’s all of it:

The wiki - this was the update up to and including 14th February

Nicola Bulley Wiki

Nicola left home with her children and dog Nicola dropped her children at school and spoke briefly to another parent Nicola was seen walking along the path by the river towards the bench into the lower field (approx) Nicola was seen in the lower field by another dog walker. The dogs...

tattle.life

Update of 15th February:

Nicola Bulley #11

Update 15/2/23 Lancashire Police held a Press Conference today, 15/2/23, to confirm detail and give an update on the Missing Person investigation for Nicola. This post gives full notes on what was said - thank you @thegreencow The Police confirmed that Nicola was classed as a High Risk Missing...

tattle.life

Update of 16th February:

Nicola Bulley #12

Update 16/2/23 Please read the Wiki for all updates prior to 15/2/23 - this will be updated to include yesterday's recap Following the press conference and statement yesterday from Lancashire Police, Nicola's family have today released a family statement Please keep Nicola's family in mind...

tattle.life

All of the threads:

Nicola Bulley Gossip Forum

 

[Deeznutslol]

What 40 year old bloke uses Pinterest? That’s the weirdest part for me, such an odd app for him to have

I know my husband has pinterest (he’s 26 not 40 but still) so I went for a stalk to see what he posts on there and it’s all just images of buildings and fried chicken recipes lmao. I also looked at his tiktok following and his whole following is just accounts which post football, gaming, peepshow and South Park clips, cooking, travel and meme pages.

I don’t think it’s fair for people to just say oh well, that’s men for you, ‘boys will be boys’! Like nah, men should not be behaving like this and following barely legal girls on social media. It’s weird and if your fella is doing that, then I’m sorry, you deserve better.

 

[RosieSparkle]

I may have missed some as I dip in and out but a lot of the blog posts shared are from 2015. I had a Mommy Blog (now deleted) back in 2015 when my first was due/ born and most of it is pretentious bollocks (hence why I've now deleted it) Are we all the same person we were online 8 years ago? I know I certainly wasn't.

 

[reens84’]

What a very sad story. I was speaking to a consultant psychologist about suicide once and he said it's very rarely something that "comes over" a person as an impulsive act, it's generally something planned for some time.

Yes it’s called a “suicide window”. They are happy, so happy, calling everyone telling them they love them, often give away their possessions. They are happy because they know their pain is coming to an end.

 

[Laughingforlife]

Well…….

See I wasn't lying!

 

[Squittel]

Urgh, hate it when people hack my Pinterest and fill my dream wedding board with photos of big boobies, happens so often these days

 

[FoxyBingo]

This is so sad.
If you don't mind me asking, did she ever return?

No. But she was found a week later and not too far from home.

 

[FoxyBingo]

Just seen a newspaper reporting her last text which was arranging a play date for her kids the following week with a friends

The friend said this indicates she had no intention of voluntarily disappearing, adding: "You wouldn’t have done that if you were going to get up and go missing.

Yea well , Gary speed did that the night before he passed . Made arrangement to have lunch with friends the weekend away . Making future arrangements doesn’t mean anything when mental health is involved

Same as the friend of a friend of mine, she had dinner with her family the night before she disappeared, had made plans to do the food shop with her parents the next day, in the meantime she had wiped her data, thoroughly cleaned her room before disappearing into the night. No one expected it at all.

 

[Dotty Merton]

Excellent post. I agree with everything you have said.

Just re: the BIB - my take on this investigation is that there was a team sent out, potentially to a suicide threat or similar. She was not involuntarily admitted that not, but has subsequently now disappeared and potentially come to harm, so this investigation would be a normal occurrence to see why she was not ‘sectioned’ that night. I don’t take from this that any crime was committed. I think the team will be questioned why they didn’t take her, as she was obviously more at risk than they thought that night. I take from it that potentially they talked her down and she agreed to go for voluntary treatment. All guesses of course.[/b]

Sorry what date did the police visit? It was only after Mums death that I was told that very often it is 14 days after a suicide attempt that the person will try again. Just at the point the family start to relax a little and think immediate threat has passed. That's what happened for us. Mums first attempt was not successful. Her second, 14 days after, was.

 

[freaknasty]

I am certain the social media is Paul. You have to jump through a lot of hoops for it not to be.

The Pinterest first opened years ago. His old website in the bio which nobody would have found if it hadn’t been in the Pinterest bio. Other websites with his picture from years ago talking about the same things and mentioning Bob Proctor. There are multiple posts on his website about Bob Proctor. The website is defunct from 2015. His pins from around that time are the same motivational crap as was on his website, under a board called My Website.

Nobody else but Paul would have known his old website name. He’s clearly not the brightest bulb in the box having it all public anyway, what makes you think he won’t be pinning naked women while his partner is missing? He had no problem doing it when she wasn’t!

The TikTok is followed by one of Nicola’s friends, and that picture of him used in both the profile pictures was never seen on his social media apart from on those accounts.

It’s him.

 

[DellaC]

So Chief Inspector DellaC here.

We have 3 main hypothesis on this current situation of Paul Ansell.

( . )( . )

Number 1 : He's oblivious to the world's eyes watching him and thought he'd have a quick barclays on a Saturday morning. His porn of choice was the ladies favourite Pinterest.

Number 2: He's never once been on tiktok or Pinterest and some gobshite has changed their name and picture to make it seem like he has. (Someone on here maybe?)

Number 3: He's been hacked and the hacker, has a fondness for titties too.

I'll assemble my team and investigate this thoroughly.

As soon as I've had a coffee and 4 lotus biscuits

 

[MrsBsDayOff]

Haven't read through this whole thread but I see on the last few pages that Paul getting a lot of stick. I don't like Paul, something off and emotionless about him.

I don't think he murdered her, but am wondering if he was a nasty piece of work behind closed doors and maybe ran her down emotionally, which contributed to her alcohol issue and state of mental wellbeing at the time she disappeared.

 

[InTheDollsHouse]

Now tattlers, last night you discovered Paul’s Pinterest porn.
If I go to bed you’re not going to find his MySpace page or an MSN Messenger archive from the 90’s are you?

 

[thatkaren]

Well…….

 

[mRsKbRoOkS]

Hi Paul or Paul’s friend…. Don’t think you murdered your wife but do think you are a total dickhead and Nicola deserved better than a man who pervs on 17 year old girls

 

[DellaC]

If anyone is watching and reporting back it'll be our old pal....

 

[DellaC]

What about his TikTok is that still going ?

GONE!!!!! Oh my good god.

Well that closes that argument doesn't it darlings!