Oh thats awful. I'd imagine if you reported such posts they'd get removed for sure. I'm sorry you had to read that.
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This makes me feel so strange.
I just took myself away from it. You’d be surprised, even in this day & age, how many people still think that word is funny! I enjoy coming on here and reading other opinions. It’s a more honest account of the influencing world etc but to use that kind of language, no matter what you think of the influencers you’re discussing, just bang out of order! It’s what gives this site a bad rep!
Don't like his blog, he's more or less saying emotions can be controlled and people who can't control them are lazy or don't want to change.
Did he think that when Nicola was going through stuff. Did he tell her these words of wisdom.
He was either ashamed to come out and say what was going on preferring to hide it or he was worried these details would change peoples perception (defensive attribution hypothesis) knowing "negative" details about a person absolutely changes perception.
I find the blog more concerning than the boobs if I'm honest. It also shows his need, desire, awareness of control.
Did he think that when Nicola was going through stuff. Did he tell her these words of wisdom.
He was either ashamed to come out and say what was going on preferring to hide it or he was worried these details would change peoples perception (defensive attribution hypothesis) knowing "negative" details about a person absolutely changes perception.
I find the blog more concerning than the boobs if I'm honest. It also shows his need, desire, awareness of control.
Unfortunately as a 42 year old single woman who dates from time to time, Paul's online follows are depressingly common in men that age. It doesn't make him controlling, a narc, responsible for destroying Nikki's reputation or a murderer. Just makes him weak and stupid.
And there was little, innocent me thinking Pintrest was for outfits and decor inspo. 
While I agree with some posters that it’s normal for men (and women) to look at images of people they find desirable, his accounts come across as obsessed. It’s not a normal “I like big boobs”, it’s an “I must collect all the pics of big boobs, follow women with big boobs, share the pics of big boobs” etc.
While I agree with some posters that it’s normal for men (and women) to look at images of people they find desirable, his accounts come across as obsessed. It’s not a normal “I like big boobs”, it’s an “I must collect all the pics of big boobs, follow women with big boobs, share the pics of big boobs” etc.
You should report it; it would definitely be removed.
I work with young people in schools and you’d be shocked at how many use that word as an insult. We treat it very seriously and they are sanctioned; unfortunately it’s often their parents who use the term at home and they don’t always understand what it’s actually saying if you know what I mean.
Maybe he's the kinda guy who hits the share link on the porn he is watchingAnd there was little, innocent me thinking Pintrest was for outfits and decor inspo.
While I agree with some posters that it’s normal for men (and women) to look at images of people they find desirable, his accounts come across as obsessed. It’s not a normal “I like big boobs”, it’s an “I must collect all the pics of big boobs, follow women with big boobs, share the pics of big boobs” etc.
I jest, but like Incognito mode FFS
Yeah, I’m 51, so language from my childhood isn’t acceptable now. It’s probably something I’ve dropped out as a child. I just think some adults need to do better don’t they? I’ll go back and see if I can find it to report!
On Nicola… I have no idea, I’m reading here and all of it, it’s just so odd isn’t it? I truly hope she’s alive and well for her children’s sake. It’s just heartbreaking thinking of her families feelings going through this!
Thank you for sharing this, same thing happened to my gran (who I absolutely adored) back in the 90's, in her 60's. Post menopausal bleeding, didn't tell anyone and by the time she did it was too late. I don't want to go into detail but I cannot stress enough how important it is to have this type of issue checked immediately.
I'm so sorry about your step mum
I'm so sorry about your step mum
While Paul's online behaviour is embarrassing I think that trying to make out there's something wrong with him liking a generic post by a popular influencer making a statement about how we shouldn't sexualise children is really unpleasant and damaging.
He has young daughters and it's likely he's all they have left.
He has young daughters and it's likely he's all they have left.
Sorry if it’s been discussed before but has there ever been any cases, high profile like Nicola, where the person has actually been alive and returned after this long? I’m still hoping she’s just ‘run away’ and is safe, even though I know it’s unlikely 
Can I just mention something, it's not projection when people spot signs in others. If anyone has gone through DA/DV counselling part of that service includes knowing what to look out for in future relationships. And thank god, because people who want to control others know exactly the type to zone in on. I'm not projecting saying this, tis fact.
Now Paul may be a loving, attentive, understanding partner and Nicola may be a nightmare to live with, I simply don't know, but I do know his blog, his words and actions since she has gone missing are at odds with that narrative.
Now Paul may be a loving, attentive, understanding partner and Nicola may be a nightmare to live with, I simply don't know, but I do know his blog, his words and actions since she has gone missing are at odds with that narrative.
I can imagine people following Caroline Flack from back in the day, but Michael Barry more is weird. I'm sure most people had forgotten about him, isn't he such a has been.
He probably didn’t even read the post, let’s be honest. He probably liked her pic on the post.
Michael Barrymore has had a bit of a tiktok come back recently, I think he has quite a lot of followers now. He comes up on my FYP a lot.
Just sitting and waiting for the day someone shares Pauls fab swingers account. Feel like it's inevitable at this rate!
I'm sorry but this is the thing that has made me say 'WOW' the most out of all this. I haven't seen any Tattlers respond to this screenshot yet? Have you all googled the lyrics to this song? And please watch the music video on YouTube. What on earth?? I can see its a long way back, in Jan 13 but still.
The liking of Barrymore (drowning) and Caroline Flack (suicide after police investigation) is mental too.
I'm really starting to think she actually has left on her own accord. I know that's hard to understand when she has 2 beautiful children, but I have been ground down by a relationship with a man who seems a lot like Paul. I left my family for a week and drove hundreds of miles away. Some might not see it as much, but the messaging of young women on Linkedin, the TikTok follows (one as young as 17), the Pinterest account, the attitude on his blog about people who have emotions, all point towards the likelihood he's a twit of a man. There she is, middle aged, trying her best to keep up her appearance, raise children, work, keep a nice home...and that's how he repays her? He's the type that doesn't want to leave her, wants to keep her there to suit him, but then subjects her to mental torture. And those are the things we know of - I expect she knew a hell of a lot more, and I expect the toxic relationship is what drove her to the alcohol, and ultimately to leave.
Sorry if people think I'm jumping to conclusions and making massive assumptions, but it's only because everything I'm seeing basically mirrors my life - down to the alcohol, the leaving etc. I'm the same age, kids same age, similar lifestyle, similar husband. Men like this send you demented. And its easy to say why not just divorce then and live separately with the girls. I don't want to out myself by going into more detail but I can honestly understand why she would see this as the only option. I can't believe how much my life mirrors hers. God bless you Nicola - I wish you could see how many people love and support you.
That might be the case but there's a big difference between liking a post containing a 40 something woman in a bra top and what was stated, which is that Paul liked a post about 11 year olds nipples. I noticed that the poster immediately back tracked when the full post was put on here. Post what you like but at least own your intentions.
No you’re right - I reacted to it a couple of pages back as it’s just so WEIRD.
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