Nicola Bulley #12

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I honestly think that would be fantastic. Let's try to make this into a positive and provide much needed info for anyone who is triggered by this emotive subject.

Well done DH...you're a diamond! X
 
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Oh please don't talk about that. I still hyperventilate when I think back. Imagine an expert in the field of mental health trolling an absolute belter like me.

It's despicable
To be honest I’m surprised someone who works in mental health even has one of these accounts?
 
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That’s a great point, and I’ll add that into the next recap as a reminder
 
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I still don't know what to think. Have calmed down a little over the menopause and alcohol issues but I want an even playing field going forward. I'd like to know MWTs and Fauldings sperm count and fertility status, how much they drink and if they're taking the little blue pills. Fair?
 
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I dont want to derail but I'd feel awful if I didn't say this as there's been a lot of discussion around menopause so it's relevant IMO.

I'm sure you may know this but i certainly didn't and may have saved my step mums life by sharing this with her.

Bleeding after menopause can be normal but it also can be a sign of something more sinister. If you're menopausal, it's so important to report any bleeding to your doctor.

If anything, I at least hope this whole situation helps raise awareness for people struggling with menopause (for example, i'm sure that menopausal leave is something that's being pushed for at the moment isn't it)
 
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Couldn't quote this as thread closed.

I appreciate her face has been blasted over every web page and newspaper BUT she is just a normal looking 40+ year old. She looks like me and my friends. If she dyed/styled her hair would you really notice her and notice it was NB?

I'm not so sure.
 

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I don’t want to think about either them in that context, to be fair.
I want to keep me tea down.
 
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To be honest I’m surprised someone who works in mental health even has one of these accounts?
I was a bit surprised that he/she was actually so aggressive with it. I can't say being called a dick off a stranger on the Internet upset me, but it might of done. Yes I'd posted jokey shit but I had also posted sensitive stuff. I do feel very sad by this case and I know many others do. He/she could even absolutely said it to the wrong person and triggered something not very nice.

You'd think someone in MH would know better??? I smell a rat haha

But this is Tattle and although we've built up a lovely (in the main) thread, you're still going to get the odd troll.

 
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I know right? When you put it like that, it really is COMPLETELY ridiculous that this has been splashed everywhere. I am so mad for her, and this whole situation - a treasured mummy, sister, partner and friend reduced to a bumbling, menopausal drunk.
 
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if this is indeed true, why this hasn't come out before?
(I’m way behind on catching up so I am sorry if this has been asked and answered)

Why should it have come out before now? It’s no one’s business but Nicola’s - and the police of course if relevant to the search.
 
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Because like the menopause and alcohol situation, is no one else’s business. Someone has had to make it everyone’s business by being a complete low life. No one has to tell people their personal issues
 
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You definitely did not ask if the dog was wet then
 
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You really have my sympathy. For me it was anxiety, completely irrational tetchiness and just feeling utterly pants. How long have you been on the patches? They do take a little bit of time to work so give it time. I remember my boobs being positively pneumatic to begin with but that settled down. If it doesn't you could review dosage with your clinician. I hope you feel better soon.
 
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I think her community seem very supportive - they circled the wagons and didn’t breathe a word to the press. I think if she came back they would continue to protect her. The media soon get bored.
 
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I walked past a playground earlier this week and I’d never really noticed before but all the mums had on padded coats that finished somewhere between their knee and their ankle, big sunglasses, ankle or calf high black boots and carried a reusable coffee mug from home. It was actually like some unwritten uniform which I’d not noticed until all the talk about what Nicola was wearing.
 
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