Suicide Rambling and Personal Experience
For anyone worried about the girls if she has died by suicide (which we have absolutely no idea about) I promise you they will be fine. Not fine how they were before, but they will grow to be fine. Life will be harder for them and they will have different realisations over the years and likely need therapy to understand it was not their fault and it wasn’t because she didn’t love them but children are amazing at just carrying on. They have loving family who will do what is best for them I’m sure. They will have a lot of feelings and those feelings will need to be heard but if there’s one thing kids do better than adults it’s resilience. Their lives will always be a bit sadder and a bit harder than everyone else’s and they will likely feel some resentment for that at various points in their lives but they will be ok. The most important thing for them is the adults around them, not just showing strength but showing weakness too, they will want to know that people around them miss and grieve her too and that it’s ok to feel sad. But that it’s also ok to wake up in the morning and feel fine. The feelings they feel will come in waves and children grieve differently to adults. Sorry this really is a ramble but what I’m trying to say is, people can build themselves back up from awful tragedies. These girls have what I never had: each other.