NicNackLou #7 Nicky nooman unbelievable hooman

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I think one thing I've realised a lot by following various people on Insta is that there are many different levels of compassion. Some people I've followed I've felt massive respect for and also deeply sorry for. Others - well. I can dig up some compassion for Nicky purely because of her predicament on paper and what it means. But I can only feel that compassion when I'm not actually looking at her. I think that her behaviour is rude, crass and disrespectful to so many people - other cancer patients, people who are struggling financially, nurses, doctors, other family members - I reckon that so many of these people have to bite their tongue when they see her coming. I'm so glad that I am not thick-skinned like she is. I'd rather hurt and be sensitive and emotional and yes, keep some dignity, than ever resort to that sort of OTT behaviour.
Very well said 👏🏻
 
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She couldnt have written this herself no? Are we seriously to believe that yesterday she was jumping around getting ice creams and whatnot and today shes too sore & tired to write a quick instagram post?

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She couldnt have written this herself no? Are we seriously to believe that yesterday she was jumping around getting ice creams and whatnot and today shes too sore & tired to write a quick instagram post?

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Maybe it's just me, but something not right about the picture choice. At first, I thought he was going to say she had passed.
 
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Maybe it's just me, but something not right about the picture choice. At first, I thought he was going to say she had passed.
It reads like shes in a really bad way… but i can’t imagine she is based on what weve seen over the weekend
 
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That is such a strange post. She’s had days where she’s not been on before so why the need to get her husband to update her account, and with that really weird background pic. Something very odd about that.
 
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Quite an odd pic to put with a post!
Its a really odd post. I dunno. I can’t decide whats really going on with her. One half of me thinks she’s actually really quite unwell now and probably doesn’t have much time left but then the other half of me cant quite believe it. I dunno. But thats a very odd post and a strange choice of photo to accompany it….
 
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I mean why not post a picture of her sleeping in her bed? She'd probably have more people feeling sorry for her...oh wait I'll just post something to look like she's dead I'm sure that will grab a lot of attention. In all seriousness why post something to make it look like someone is dead...that is sick. Weather is was from him or her they know what they're doing and making out someone is dead for the gram doesn't sit right with me.
 
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I think, I’m reading between the lines here, but Nick doesn’t have much time left, less time then we all realise
I agree. I dont think theres a bouceback from
This, I think this is the beginning of the end. Id be very surprised if she makes it through this summer.
 
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That is such a strange post. She’s had days where she’s not been on before so why the need to get her husband to update her account, and with that really weird background pic. Something very odd about that.
I think she wrote it and I think she's adding more drama since she had that recent influx of followers from Hinch and SS posting her. She knows that it's a good opportunity to reel in the new people into thinking she needs/deserves the £££ in GFM donations.
 
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She couldnt have written this herself no? Are we seriously to believe that yesterday she was jumping around getting ice creams and whatnot and today shes too sore & tired to write a quick instagram post?

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whoever it was written by, it's purposefully written in a way that will cause people to have questions about her wellbeing - which is exactly what she wants, because it boosts engagement! it's another engagement tactic, like the other day when shared a selfie in the hospital, yet waited for hours to explain why she was there, to encourage people to send concerned DMs - sharing a few breadcrumbs of information, when it would have taken her - or Mr G - the same amount of time to share a more clear and concise update, not one that is written purposefully to leave people guessing.

it was very obvious that Nicky would return home and do the usual "totally overdid it", and take to her bed - especially once she had announced that she didn't sleep well for the last night if her holiday, with reminders of her pain etc, despite not having struggled the first few nights - all set up to be on track with the predictable routine of not having a "haunt" of an "adventure" to share as content, so everything is about exhaustion and pain and taking a few days away from IG to sleep, to increase sympathy towards her prior to her next ad or holiday. and i know this sounds very cynical, but I've said it before - it's fat too coincidental that every time she fancies a trip to the beach or a meal out with friends or a day trip to London, she's able to manage her pain, to the point where she is physically able to bounce around full of energy, not needing her stick etc, yet the moment she steps back through her front door, she suddenly can't take a single step without her cane, has "pushed herself too far" - which she says she needs to learn from, but then continues to do exactly the same - and is begging for gifted pillows and mattresses because she is in such severe pain she can't sleep - despite having managed to sleep on a totally random bed in a beach hut for the past few nights with no issues. also, note how she managed the trip back home, despite mentioning pain earlier that morning, but managed to delay her exhaustion and need to sleep until she'd popped in for an easter roast with her husband's family. and sure, pain and tiredness fluctuates, but she always seems to able to turn her symptoms on and off as it suits her and her plans in a way that simply doesn't add up. there would be plans/trips/events/meals she had to cancel, yet other than Thailand - because she was hospitalised and wouldn't have been allowed to fly - it always seems to work in her favour.

and as much as that caption states that Nicky is resting - there is no way she isn't able to share a quick story, especially as she is usually so quick to upload photos of herself curled up in bed etc, and i fully imagine that she is still active on IG liking posts etc, it's just been done with a random photo in the background so that it appears different to her usual stories, to intentionally cause people to worry. given that the caption is so purposefully vague and hardly reassuring. 🤷🏻‍♂️
 
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Very strange for her to go from what she was doing yesterday to now being so unwell she can’t even post?! Maybe it’s because she does it so often but it just seems so hard to believe. It all seems like a photo she would have chosen, with a caption she’d have written.
 
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I think both things are true - she's reached the beginning of the end of life stage and the post is attention-seeking.
 
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I’m torn with that post, I really really wouldn’t want to believe they’d make a plan for engagement, I hope they’re not that calculated.

I hope she’s OK. I knew someone with stage 4 cancer. One day they were organising to meet up with me in a few days- the next I’d heard they had died. It really can change in a matter of hours.
 
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I think Nikki might be unwell. They had booked in for a 3 night stay but left after the second night?
 
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I think it’s genuine. But she has not been doing herself any favours, wanting to constantly be on the go all the time. I do hope her husband is telling her this, but something tells me she doesn’t listen to him. I think she will bounce back—I hope she does, but she needs to take it easy. Yes her prognosis is terminal, but it doesn’t seem to have occurred fo her that constantly doing the MOST all the time, may speed up the inevitable? And I doubt she wants that. 🤷‍♀️
 
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Haven’t posted on this thread in ages as other posters say it all perfectly! But this last story tonight struck me as particularly strange. Off brand. A little…mistimed.

I can’t put my finger on it, as seems to be the case with everyone else! Either it is the beginning of the end, and Mr.G is preparing himself somehow, she’s taken a very sudden turn for the worse and will update us properly tomorrow, or they calculated it together…complete with very worrying Aurora pic.

If the last, then my respect has reached rock bottom. That pic screamed “death”. It was a condolence pic. A crossing the bridge pic. It was manipulative and worrying. Despise her behaviour or not, seeing a death notice is something none of us want (but all know is coming). Are they trying to to test the waters with a fake-out??? 😒

I must admit, my heart skipped a beat when I saw that, but quickly turned to disappointment (at the calculated nature of it) when I read the caption. As others have pointed out, it would be odd for Nic to decline so fast since she was doing reasonably well on holiday. Very confusing.
 
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