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I was just about to say the same thing. She must definitely have some mental health issues or seriously living in major major denial. Can you imagine being on a ward and having a bed next to nicky?? I have seen young children behave better than her. She needs to pull her big girl pants up and grow the duck up and deal with it the same as every other person in exactly the same boat or worseI just find her behaviour really pathetic and so juvenile. She’s a grown adult, and yet she constantly acts like a child. I find it beyond weird. There must be some sort of mental health issues at play here because I can’t understand why the health professionals go along with her nonsense. Its not normal and its not standard care, to whisk her off to a bloody children’s ward to cuddle her… its very odd
Honestly if I had family being treated at that hospital I’d be messaging! I’d be bloody furious that this happened, she has an infection, they don’t know what it is.I just keep getting visions of nicky kicking off threatening to pull her line out because she's "reached her limit" and the nurses from the children's ward "swooping" in to take her away for an hour for a cuddle on the sofa whilst she's sucking her thumb like a poorly 2 year old. The more I read that update the more pissed off I get . She's got a bleeping Infection to which is being treated, god forbid she ends up with some serious progression, I can't even begin to imagine how she would handle that if this is how she handles an Infection
Plenty of people in the same situation. I'm in my 30s and stage 4, I know the fear and the anxiety she has because I have the same. I know lots who are in their twenties who all also have the same fears and anxieties and worries but DONT behave how she has and continues to behave. She actually offers nothing to the SBC community, despite what she thinks. There's a lot that have messaged her because she is well known and she never replies to anyone. She's a complete farce!I really hope Nikki is OK. She’s reverted to a child like state, her mental health must be in tatters. I can’t imagine what she must be going through. Take away the theatrics, take away the child like behaviour, this is a woman in her 30s who’s going to be scared. Instagram has become her addiction, her role in this world and that for me is sad in itself. I hope she gets quality time with her husband and family- gets off of social media now as it really doesn’t matter.
it's genuinely shocking the way they pander to her childish behaviour! i very much doubt any of the teen patients would be given such privileged treatment - and i also doubt they would behave like toddlers, and threaten to pull their line out to ensure they are taken to a ward where the nurses are familiar and demand hugs and attention, despite the risks of transferring an unknown illness/infection to vulnerable patients and also the strain she is placing on the nurses on the ward, because she is not currently a patient on their ward, thus is - once again - demanding all attention is on her and is taken away from the teens receiving chemo treatment who the nurses should be focusing their attention on! it's bad enough the way she demands the spotlight is on her whenever she is receiving treatment, but the utter audacity of throwing tantrums to ensure she is allowed to visit her usual ward to curl up on the sofa for cuddles, despite the huge strain on the NHS and the fact that she should be grateful that she has a bed, let alone demanding the attention of every nurse.The NHS is on its knees yet she’s behaving like this? I hope Surrey NHS treat all their patients the same way.
it's wild that they encourage her behaviour though. like, even if it is the case that she has age regression, surely she should be given psychological support to help her deal with her situation and process her prognosis, not have everyone around d her, including medical professionals, accepting - and actively encouraging - such obvious regression, and responding to her childish behaviour by giving her cuddles and allowing her to dress up and dance around and decorate her hospital room etc, because that isn't actually helping her process her diagnosis. in that respect, she is being let down, because she obviously needs psychological input, not the expectation that nurses tiptoe around her and go along with all her demands.This was a very bizarre update. It reminds me of the time I was in an adult ward at 21 and lost 5 pints of blood, had emergency surgery and no family around me. I could’ve done with a cuddle then but just got a harsh talk by a nurse to be brave and get on with it instead
I think she has age regression possibly from the fact that she knows she sadly will not grow old and have the adult life she dreamt of as a child. So she remains ‘the child’ in the dynamics.