What gets me though, is that when she’s “silent”, she will still have been collecting pictures and videos during the silence, ready to be uploaded whenever she does come back on. And that’s the kind of bullshit that annoys me with her. It’s manipulative because people will have been genuinely concerned about her silence but actually she’s still been able to take videos and pictures. She’s just waiting and making people worry for no reason.
this is what really irritates me. she is active on IG, so is very aware that her followers are worried, as there are endless comments left on her recent posts where people are highlighting their anxieties about her not having posted, plus the huge amount of concerned DMs she will be receiving. she doesn't need to share a reel or a lengthy post, or even share stories where she is talking or showing her face - a simple captioned story with an update that she is okay, just doesn't have the energy to post on IG or reply to messages or whatever, just to reassure her followers who are obvs going to worry when she is someone who generally posts multiple stories on a daily basis!if she is well enough to be active on IG, she is well enough to share a very basic update to ease people's anxiety, yet instead she seems to thrive on the concern and anxieties of people who support her and really care about her, which is incredibly manipulated and twisted, especially because we all know she does it specifically as an engagement tactic! and tbh, what's worse is that one the days she goes totally silent and is giving the impression she is exhausted and feeling too rough to use IG, she is filming constantly, taking photos etc and focusing on content so that she can then return with an edited reel, all positive and silver linings, very much highlighting that she absolutely was capable of reassuring her followers, yet instead chose not to despite being aware they were worried!