coolchatcat
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She’s a first time mum-with twins no less.I think she’s overwhelmed and overthinking everything but at least she has the babies best interests at heart.I know from experience that it doesn’t matter people saying this to you as a FTM but I still would love to tell Elle to relax a bit more and go with the flow. I think she has a really perfectionist personality which is mega relatable - we used to work in the same field so I get it and I’m a relatively new mum too. But she over engineers/researches everything about those babies and stresses about any change to routine that I think she probably hypes herself up and makes it worse…Not sure the point of my post here because I do sympathise with her and I did the exact same so with twins it must be so much harder!
But if she lowered her expectations it might help her? The tents are a good idea but the “practice” nap in them seems so OTT. It’s just a dark space for them I’m not sure it needs a trial run lol